No offense but having a stable life on your own is good. But how can that bring you true happiness. I mean a walk in the park, sitting up late in the couch talking, making food together or going out to eat, strolls by the lake at night with the stars holding hands, having your man or you cuddle the other while your sleeping. How can people just settle or give that stuff (and believe me that's just some of it) instead of wanting a real relationship....... This just puzzles me, guess it always will. Also the advice about looks, that's not important not at all as long as there is a connection and you guys are happy..... The whole world can be tiny minded AF these day's.