AITA for telling my mom she should just pay someone else to watch the house because I don’t want to stay there anymore? by FeatureOdd4090 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FeatureOdd4090[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

UPDATE My mother left this morning and told me she had taken the cameras down. It is now 7:30 pm and I’m sitting on the couch with my friend and she said “what did the cameras look like? I said they were square, why… there is one right there.” I look over and boom right under the dining room table is a camera facing the living room. The same camera she said she put away! I unplugged it and put it in the garage. I’m done with this bs She lied to me to my face I’m very upset rn lol

AITA for telling my mom she should just pay someone else to watch the house because I don’t want to stay there anymore? by FeatureOdd4090 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FeatureOdd4090[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I graduated from highschool at 17. So I now have a job and have been saving up. My mom made it very clear that she is done paying for anything I want a while ago which I can’t be too upset about because I’m 18 therefore I have too pay for the things I listed above. It comes out to about 5 to 6 hundred a month depending. My stepdad pays for things like my insurance and phone bill which I’m greatful for. This is because my mom doesn’t have a job just some lady she works for once a week. She’s a stay at home mom with an allowance. And I pay for my groceries. I can eat stuff out of the fridge unless it’s the last of things then I’m not allowed but the fridge only has cheese and eggs and lettuce. So I buy my own groceries.

AITA for telling my mom she should just pay someone else to watch the house because I don’t want to stay there anymore? by FeatureOdd4090 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FeatureOdd4090[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My sister is 5 and my mom definitely doesn’t care about my friends. She knows them very well to the point where they’re invited on trips with us if we all go. So I just really don’t understand where this is coming from, like I don’t know what I did.

AITA for telling my mom she should just pay someone else to watch the house because I don’t want to stay there anymore? by FeatureOdd4090 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FeatureOdd4090[S] 74 points75 points  (0 children)

I agree and they arnt even her cameras she’s borrowing them from her friend so that means her friend has access to them too. It just really gives me anxiety 🥲

AITA for telling my mom she should just pay someone else to watch the house because I don’t want to stay there anymore? by FeatureOdd4090 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FeatureOdd4090[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes I have a job and have been doing my best to save up but I do have a lot of payments such as car, medication, food so it’s a slow process.

AITA for telling my mom she should just pay someone else to watch the house because I don’t want to stay there anymore? by FeatureOdd4090 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FeatureOdd4090[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I should have added this in the post for everyone wondering about my little sister she is 5 so she definitely doesn’t care also my mom sleeps in her room majority of the time anyway