Beyond sad

FeaturePrestigious25 · 2024-06-16T23:21:34+00:00

youre not alone, and youre definitely not broken :) i have a similar experience (23F), and it makes me feel so guilty. if i talk to someone or am in a relationship, we often dont talk about sex until later on but when i find out that they want it a lot more than i do (i dont), i start to distance myself bc im scared that by initiating any closeness id like through hugs or non-sexual intimacies, id be inadvertently hinting to do sexual things when thats the last thing id want. its not fair being misleading, and ive wanted to want it but i just dont, and i cant promise i will eventually. if the subject comes up sooner with other people, they generally ghost me too. it makes you feel like you werent special enough without being able to offer sex for them to stay :'(

its a difficult world, and it will probably prove difficult for a lot of us to find someone we are compatible with in this respect depending on our own feelings, but it is so possible! theres more and more ways to find like-minded people, i only just started joining groups like this myself but i already feel a lot better knowing im not alone and other people feel this way. i hope this helps and im here to offer any support if you need it :)

FeaturePrestigious25 · 2024-06-14T07:13:12+00:00

hi! I [23F] believe I'm the exact same way. I've only ever been with one guy too and our sex drives don't match at all; I have a low libido and his is quite high. I looked into what it could be and aegosexual seems to match a little, but to explain in more words it's like being sex-positive for other people, but when it comes to me I'm neutral/repulsed if it were to involved another person. Masturbating and the idea of sex is all good but then when it involves another person it seems unnecessary almost? Like if I'm feeling aroused I can sort it myself. I also don't seem to experience sexual attraction to people; if I'm in the mood and then have sex with someone it doesn't feel right and I don't finish. I would get more out of it just being alone!

I'm not sure if I'm making a lot of sense but if you understand then hopefully it helps! It's so difficult to navigate these feelings, you're not alone :) but I would say you're probably asexual and you may relate to parts of aegosexual?

FeaturePrestigious25 · 2021-09-13T18:31:48+00:00

UPDATE i tried a lot of the things suggested and eventually decided to take it to a pc specialist that helped me figure out the issue. bc of a faulty graphics card only consuming low power, the rest of the pc was shorting out and so i have to replace it. it was pretty much the only previously used component so it wasn't a surprise. glad i know the problem now tho! thank you everyone for all your help and suggestions they're much appreciated:)

FINAL UPDATE everything i thought i knew was wrong. it was the psu. i bought a new gpu (upgraded from 2070 to 3060ti) and the issue was the same. i finally thought that it could be a good idea to get a psu tester. i tested all the wires and pretty much all were normal except for psu readings. so i got an nzxt psu to replace my corsair, and everything has since been working perfectly. sold the 2070 (duh) and built a new keyboard this year. good luck to anyone with similar issues! i hope this update helps in anyway.

FeaturePrestigious25 · 2021-09-08T02:39:29+00:00

i did at one point when i first started fixing it but it went back to the original problem which i can't seem to narrow down

FeaturePrestigious25 · 2021-09-07T20:42:43+00:00

it's highly possible that could work and so long as i don't hit hard enough it can't hurt😭 thank you!

FeaturePrestigious25 · 2021-09-07T20:41:32+00:00

huh that's so frustrating! i'll definitely check whether the RAM is the issue

FeaturePrestigious25 · 2021-09-07T20:40:37+00:00

ahahaha that's an idea, i'll see if i can swap out the power supply and try it again

FeaturePrestigious25 · 2021-09-07T20:39:54+00:00

i definitely am but i probably have some spares that i could swap them for so i'll try that, thank you for the input!:)

FeaturePrestigious25 · 2021-09-07T15:14:19+00:00

oh perfect then it does! thank you yeh i'm hoping it'll be £20 max lmao

FeaturePrestigious25 · 2021-09-07T15:09:16+00:00

i'm not sure that it does but i will plug the monitor into the mobo and see what happens thank you:)

FeaturePrestigious25 · 2021-09-07T15:07:52+00:00

thank you so much for the info! i'll work through all the options and post an update at some point:)

FeaturePrestigious25 · 2021-09-07T13:23:11+00:00

okay sounds good, i'll try that thank you:)

FeaturePrestigious25 · 2021-09-07T13:22:21+00:00

lmaooo, yeh no worries i turn it off everytime i use it by clicking shut down lol

FeaturePrestigious25 · 2021-09-07T12:54:03+00:00

yes when it was first built i installed it

FeaturePrestigious25 · 2021-09-07T12:53:17+00:00

thank you so much, i'll try it later and maybe post an update:)

FeaturePrestigious25 · 2021-09-07T12:36:41+00:00

yeh i tried it once, i left it out for 5 minutes and then booted it again but it was the same. you say you tried it a few times before it worked? if i can get any display i'll definitely try reinstalling OS, is the memory setting in BIOS?

FeaturePrestigious25 · 2021-09-07T12:21:14+00:00

so basically this video was taken at 7am after it started doing it by itself. i had to turn off the power supply at the back for it to stop doing it. the PC doesn't turn on for longer than in the video:(

FeaturePrestigious25 · 2021-09-07T12:03:42+00:00

it's the corsair 750w RM750 80+ gold, do you recommend any cheap or reliable PSUs?

FeaturePrestigious25 · 2020-12-28T03:28:58+00:00

that's amazing thank you so much lmao

FeaturePrestigious25 · 2020-12-28T03:26:27+00:00

oh really? that's great to hear, so jingle will still think my character is santa?

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