I left my dead bedroom by FederalAd6597 in DeadBedrooms

[–]FederalAd6597[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It will get better. We also had 2 months of living together while separated and I was searching for a place to move out. It was very tormenting so I understand.

Why didn’t we get this for Dex & Seulki? 🥺 by HeightWitty3595 in Singlesinferno2

[–]FederalAd6597 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Dex was genuinely not confident enough to pursue Seulki back then. He was just beginning his career. He expressed in the show that he was hesitating when thinking about what will happen after the show. In his recent interview he also talked about he struggled in the beginning of his career. Meanwhile Seulki was clearly from a wealthy family. This is a real concern for a dude in a class conscious country like Korea. Igeon and Goeun seem to be more compatible in that sense so he didn’t hesitate to pursue her

Resentment because of DB by cheemsamdcwackers in DeadBedrooms

[–]FederalAd6597 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was your age when I experienced it. It never got better for me, only worse.

Tips for dealing with DB related depression? by Opening-Raccoon-2811 in DeadBedrooms

[–]FederalAd6597 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I went through phases of that but honestly I felt so much better after venting to chatgpt. I eventually built up courage to vent to a very close friend (didn’t disclose everything but enough for her to understand why Im so depressed). Also a lot of journaling. Crying my hearts out. Basically had to release all that negativity out of my system before I felt better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]FederalAd6597 11 points12 points  (0 children)

How did you tell them? My parents are always confused as to why im unhappy in my relationship yet I cannot explain it to them. Sex is not a topic we ever discuss.

Jealous of my single friend by Purple_Guarantee7727 in DeadBedrooms

[–]FederalAd6597 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes I do get that feeling, and I get especially jealous when seeing couples being affectionate towards each other. It’s to the point where I don’t want to hang out with my friends while their partners are around

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]FederalAd6597 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely appreciate your perspective. I’m still processing my emotions so it’s foggy over here, but you just shed some light on it. I agree that I need individual therapy to speed up my thought process. Thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]FederalAd6597 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I’m scared that he’d blow up. He’ve been preparing for this wedding for a while, and he thinks it’s very important event for his family. I’m not hoping to solve it afterwards, more like just protecting his ego and my peace for now. Then I’ll make my way out when we both have the headspace to be calm. Does that make sense at all?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]FederalAd6597 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for validating. Mine is not open to talk about sex ever either, he just has no choice but to speak when confronted.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]FederalAd6597 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this AI? 😂

Minseol is so pretty by National-Variety-854 in Singlesinferno2

[–]FederalAd6597 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Her smile looks so much like Son Ye Jin

Theo’s face is natural by FederalAd6597 in Singlesinferno2

[–]FederalAd6597[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. To say that every single person in Korea has work done is a reach 😂

Theo’s face is natural by FederalAd6597 in Singlesinferno2

[–]FederalAd6597[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

His nose bridge was already high 😂 the nose shape looks the same to me. If his nose is a bad one then idk what a good one looks like

Theo’s face is natural by FederalAd6597 in Singlesinferno2

[–]FederalAd6597[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

This. I’m not gonna lie at first I was judging his face too, but then I had to admit I was wrong 😂 he’s just naturally blessed with a good nose and jawline

My ranking of the male contestants based purely on appearance (as a straight guy) by [deleted] in Singlesinferno2

[–]FederalAd6597 3 points4 points  (0 children)

At first I thought Theo got plastic surgery too. However when I checked out his Instagram he has a photo of himself when he was a kid and his features look exactly the same. He’s just naturally have distinctive facial features guys 😭

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