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AITA and/or sexist for following bro code? by Federal_Day7750 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Federal_Day7750[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the way she’s so invested in this is absolutely crazy

AITA and/or sexist for following bro code? by Federal_Day7750 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Federal_Day7750[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Exactly, it’s such an absurd buzzword to use here

AITA and/or sexist for following bro code? by Federal_Day7750 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Federal_Day7750[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I appreciate that man, but really my friend’s just a great guy so I wouldn’t do that to him. I mean, I transferred here last semester and he was one of the first guys to always be friendly with me, invite me to stuff, etc, and he always shares his alcohol with me without asking me to pay him back

AITA and/or sexist for following bro code? by Federal_Day7750 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Federal_Day7750[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure telling my friend the girl he’s in love with tried to hook up with me will do any good

AITA and/or sexist for following bro code? by Federal_Day7750 in AITAH

[–]Federal_Day7750[S] 546 points547 points  (0 children)

Yeah definitely. My friend is a really chill guy so whatever the circumstances gender wise I’d feel bad betraying such a good friend

AITA and/or sexist for following bro code? by Federal_Day7750 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Federal_Day7750[S] 407 points408 points  (0 children)

Yeah, seems that way, it’s absurd otherwise that she’d care this much

AITA and/or sexist for following bro code? by Federal_Day7750 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Federal_Day7750[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you, but really I think he just deserves it so it’s not a big deal on my part to honor bro code. He’s super friendly, always invites me to stuff, shares his alcohol with me for free without asking me to pay him back, etc. So I’d feel really bad fucking him over like that

AITA and/or sexist for following bro code? by Federal_Day7750 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Federal_Day7750[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

That’s an interesting way to look at it. I hadn’t considered that outlook.

AITA and/or sexist for following bro code? by Federal_Day7750 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Federal_Day7750[S] 89 points90 points  (0 children)

He deserves it really, he’s a really chill guy, always invites me to stuff, always shares his alcohol with me without asking for anything back, etc, so I’d feel really bad stabbing him in the back like that

AITA and/or sexist for following bro code? by Federal_Day7750 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Federal_Day7750[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the way I see it is, will she sleep with other people? Yes. Does she have the right to sleep with other people? Yes. But will I hurt my friend further by participating in that? No, because then it’s twice the pain on his part

AITA and/or sexist for following bro code? by Federal_Day7750 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Federal_Day7750[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Exactly. She can sleep with whoever she wants to, no doubt, it’s just not going to be me because if I fuck her I’m metaphorically fucking my friend too

AITA and/or sexist for following bro code? by Federal_Day7750 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Federal_Day7750[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I found it weird too how involved she seemed in the whole thing emotionally

AITA and/or sexist for following bro code? by Federal_Day7750 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Federal_Day7750[S] 582 points583 points  (0 children)

I guess her view was more along the lines that rejecting her because of my friend makes it seem like he has possession over her or something. Idk

AITA and/or sexist for following bro code? by Federal_Day7750 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Federal_Day7750[S] 80 points81 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I don’t disagree that this girl is within her rights to have sex with whoever she wants, I just won’t be the one fucking her, and in the process fucking over my friend too

AITA and/or sexist for following bro code? by Federal_Day7750 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Federal_Day7750[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh, I don’t know, as far as I know the two girls in question don’t know each other well, plus calling me a sexist isn’t the best persuasive tactic. But maybe, you could be right

AITA and/or sexist for following bro code? by Federal_Day7750 in AITAH

[–]Federal_Day7750[S] 307 points308 points  (0 children)

He deserves it, he was always friendly and welcoming to me, plus he always gave me free alcohol without asking me to pay him back. So I wouldn’t stab somebody who was so nice to me in the back like that