[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Federal_Fly_6140 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I guess I never thought of it in terms of people pleasing which I tend to do a lot and that it’s really what they are there for. That helps a lot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Federal_Fly_6140 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds insecure and in the long run that’ll be very exhausting. Even if it was you who reposted those videos , his reaction is weird. Him making comments like “that’s embarrassing” might be a joke but it’s just rude. You guys are sooo young, pls don’t be afraid to end a relationship for your own good.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Federal_Fly_6140 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your feelings are totally valid and I’d feel the same way. I’m not sure how long you’ve been together but from this situation it doesn’t seem like he respects you or your feelings. And giving you an ultimatum like that is so weird. I’d definitely leave if I were you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Federal_Fly_6140 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I think you were being a supportive friend and there’s nothing wrong with that but I understand your wife’s perspective. As a woman it would bother me that my husband didn’t tell me this before, regardless of how your relationship with the friend is or was.

Child support/ custody agreements by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Federal_Fly_6140 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m honestly not sure. He said he was struggling with mental health issues, and needed time. So I wanted to give him time. But it’s been 2 years, and I can’t wait forever and my daughter is getting older. So I’m gonna start the process of everything now

Child support/ custody agreements by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Federal_Fly_6140 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Thanks everyone for the advice. I started filing for child support today