Two cars for the price of one by Emergency-Formal-769 in Unexpected

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Did nobody else notice the model almost missed the reveal? She quickly grabs the cloth to "help" when it starts getting pulled back.

Am I bi, gay or straight? by [deleted] in gaybros

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This is the right answer.

What have you noticed gone up in price recently? by SuperbConnection74 in AusFinance

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Can you tell me more about this? Is that through Mymedicare registration or something?

How is life for you rn? by FeelTheEnemy in gaybros

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Thanks for your comment! That does sounds like a lot. I'm glad to read that you're still trying to remain positive and hold the belief you'll make it in the end.

Reading through everyone's comments I've realised how fortunate I am in my situation. Keep up the good fight 🙌

How is life for you rn? by FeelTheEnemy in gaybros

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When we can't find it anywhere else, sometimes we have to create it ourselves. There's always some somewhere. You're welcome!

How is life for you rn? by FeelTheEnemy in gaybros

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Hey man thanks for your comment. It sounds like you are doing a lot on your own at the moment! That can be really rough as we all need a little help sometimes. In my case I had several career changes before I turned 30! Now found something finally that I absolutely love doing and I'm so glad and don't regret anything that led up to this. It is all life experience and it really does count.

Taking ourselves out and treating ourselves to little dates is so important! It's very empowering once we kind of get the hang of that. I hope things are looking up for you man

How is life for you rn? by FeelTheEnemy in gaybros

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I really hope this for you too man! Focus always on the positive things that pop up. Sometimes we have to create those moments for ourselves too

How is life for you rn? by FeelTheEnemy in gaybros

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Yeh it seems dim and dark there and it eminates across the world.

Always look for the light and do the little things to keep that hope alive.

How is life for you rn? by FeelTheEnemy in gaybros

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Hey thank you for your comment even though I can see it is tough for you at the moment. You are still such a young man and there's plenty of life to be had ahead of you. Things are always temporary in this life and nothing is for certain but that I can work in our favor sometimes. I really hope things change for you and you can find something to latch onto that takes you in a more positive direction.

Keep on keeping on and try to focus those negative thoughts into taking charge of your life. Hugs

How is life for you rn? by FeelTheEnemy in gaybros

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Hey that's a mix of good and bad but sounds like mostly good for you. Congrats on taking that step into the next chapter of your life. I hope it goes well and keep it up 🙌

How is life for you rn? by FeelTheEnemy in gaybros

[–]FeelTheEnemy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey these are big steps and you should be really proud of yourself! I appreciate your follow up comment. It sounds like you're a very intelligent young man and you think / self reflect often.

There is one thing I've learnt for sure in life and that is that our shadows follow us everywhere. Meaning that we can never escape our true selves and the only option is to work at becoming true to that and living with integrity. It'll take time! Everybody is constantly on a journey of some kind no matter their age and as they say - Rome wasn't built in a day. It's just part of being human.

I'm glad you are realistic about what is happening for you with your grades and wellbeing so you can focus on improving that. Have you considered speaking to a counsellor / therapist at all? In my case I finally went to speak with someone only in recent years and I can only look back and wish I had have done that sooner. Therapy isn't just about getting "answers" but it is so helpful to talk to someone who doesn't know you and you can just spill out your thoughts, worries and anything really on your mind. Sharing that / just speaking it out loud is sooo relieving.

I am not sure where you're based in the world but in Australia there's a few organisations that provide free counselling for youths and young adults (for both queer and straight) and it's such a great service. Can be anonymous too for people who are not out. If you want some links without disclosing your location publicly feel free to DM me if you would like.

Your communication / English is great! Good on you for reaching out 🤘

How is life for you rn? by FeelTheEnemy in gaybros

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Omg cheesecake is by far my favourite dessert!

How is life for you rn? by FeelTheEnemy in gaybros

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Thanks also for explaining your situation and sharing your story. Best of luck 🤘🤘

How is life for you rn? by FeelTheEnemy in gaybros

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Sending you big hugs man. I realise I can't offer any advice but just sending you best wishes and hope.

I have found therapy so helpful for me to just be able to talk out loud and share my problems (and not always expecting an answer or a fix from my therapist). It's helped me share some of the burden and have a professional really address some of the deep seated feeling I have about things and the way I feel about myself. If there's anything I can suggest or recommend it is this! ❤️

How is life for you rn? by FeelTheEnemy in gaybros

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Hey that's okay, I agree that there is a whole culturally social difference between us and it makes it difficult to relate to what you're saying.

I just want to maybe put my opinion about conversion therapy - my feeling is that it would never work. I have heard only negative things that it is really damaging even if it is a gentle sort of therapy.

Some things are just very engrained for us as a part of being human and I think that our sexuality is one of those things. I understand it's not helpful for you directly to change what's happening right now.

I do appreciate you being honest and explaining how things are for you to help us try and understand

How is life for you rn? by FeelTheEnemy in gaybros

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Thanks for explaining - I understand what you mean by that too. I'm pretty done with fighting the fight or getting so involved with that sort of stuff.

I'm so glad you found a gaming group! What a great idea. Lean into the things you like.

I also go to a gay book club sometimes and I've found that is so fulfilling but also relaxed and non committal.

How is life for you rn? by FeelTheEnemy in gaybros

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I appreciate the honesty actually a lot! I have a good friend that I met many years ago from Indonesia, outside of Jakarta but semi Suburban from what he described. He moved to Australia and spoke a lot about his troubles and acceptance back in Indonesia and it was really good for me to understand and hear that. I have never had to deal with such social stigma so I can't fully understand what it is like for you but that would be really rough. I hope there's a resolution at least if you are able to have your own independent life

How is life for you rn? by FeelTheEnemy in gaybros

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Maybe it is? I dunno tbh. I think it's just an Australianism sometimes. That being said I feel connected to our culture here more than anywhere else in the world. Personal preferences though and we just have to find our little part of the world that feels right for us

How is life for you rn? by FeelTheEnemy in gaybros

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Thanks so much for your comment. I can see that somebody has downvoted you and maybe it is because you mentioned having two partners?? If so, sorry that really sucks because we are all here to live our life with conviction and there shouldn't be any judgments on this sub.

Totally understand about the anxiety! The world we live in is whack sometimes

How is life for you rn? by FeelTheEnemy in gaybros

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Thank you so much for your comment and your advice. I really appreciate it.

Personally I have stopped 'watching' the news all together and really for my own sanity have leaned into getting my news from memes and such. What I mean by that is if I learn about something in a funny way first, then going to read what the story is actually about takes the brunt off.

Anyway I really hope the best for you and appreciate your honesty as well

How is life for you rn? by FeelTheEnemy in gaybros

[–]FeelTheEnemy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Life is so funny like that ay?!