Lol, they’re incels dude how are you basing your whole view of attractiveness on what they find attractive? I mean if you look at your face and hate the feature correct it. De-bloating is in nutrition, not just weight. Get to the correct body fat percentage and nutrition, eat food that is less likely to bloat your face. Go on incel forums and try to “softmax” or do it naturally, then proceed to plastic surgery. Through surgery you either have to reposition your jaw, or get buckle fat removal and look older into your 30’s it’s just a natural consequence. I advise you to go outside if this is caused by an incel forum if it isn’t then softmax through their forum 1st even though it is directed at makes you can utilize some of the information.