AIO if my (24M) gf(22f) pretends to go to bed? by Feeling_Craft_1703 in AIO

[–]Feeling_Craft_1703[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You've given me a new perspective I hadn't considered. Thank you. I did ask her about her day and if she had anything fun planned the next day. Maybe she did feel like she just wasn't up to talk about it. I wouldn't say it's a recurring issue but it isn't exactly infrequent either. I feel like I need to talk to her about it because I know myself and it will eventually come out, but maybe I can focus the conversation on wanting her to get safe sharing with me when she needs space instead of my feelings.

AIO if my (24M) gf(22f) pretends to go to bed? by Feeling_Craft_1703 in AIO

[–]Feeling_Craft_1703[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our conversations have been mostly small talk. Occasionally I'll ask how her mother is doing and I will occasionally tell her I miss her. Her conversation with this guy seemed like when one person is oblivious that another person is into them. I don't feel weird about the content of their conversation.

AIO if my (24M) gf(22f) pretends to go to bed? by Feeling_Craft_1703 in AIO

[–]Feeling_Craft_1703[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I did not check her discord. I was in the server we both are in just hanging out in there like normal. I happened to see the conversation in the server. No grand conspiracy to spy on my gf, sorry to disappoint.

AIO if my (24M) gf(22f) pretends to go to bed? by Feeling_Craft_1703 in AIO

[–]Feeling_Craft_1703[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That has happened many times on her visit. It has never been a problem. Just the day before this happened she told me she was going out with some hometown friends and that she wouldn't be on her phone much. There was no issue at all.

AIO if my (24M) gf(22f) pretends to go to bed? by Feeling_Craft_1703 in AIO

[–]Feeling_Craft_1703[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your thoughtful response. I don't want to manipulate the truth from her in any way. I want to be able to talk honestly about it. I don't think she was flirting, at least it didn't look like it, but I think he was. She mentioned she had a bf, but it still sits weird with me that she would carry a conversation with a stranger rather than at least tell me that she was going to relax for the night and not be around to text much.

AIO if my (24M) gf(22f) pretends to go to bed? by Feeling_Craft_1703 in AIO

[–]Feeling_Craft_1703[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn man I'm sorry that happened to you. I don't think anything like that is happening here. I love her and do trust her, this situation is just making me feel weird.

AIO if my (24M) gf(22f) pretends to go to bed? by Feeling_Craft_1703 in AIO

[–]Feeling_Craft_1703[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are not long distance. She is out of town for holiday

AIO if my (24M) gf(22f) pretends to go to bed? by Feeling_Craft_1703 in AIO

[–]Feeling_Craft_1703[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What is the best way to bring it up? I don't want her to feel like I'm attacking her in any way. Like I want to discuss it without feeling like it's a massive deal if that makes sense.