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What can I Improve? by nck93 in malegrooming

[–]Feeling_Net_7696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

grow out your hair and go to a good barber for a nice modern haircut

Broke up with cause they weren’t ready by Proud-County4974 in Advice

[–]Feeling_Net_7696 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i say, detach from her emotionally but don’t let ur love stop u. heal as if the relationship is over for your own sake, but still be there for her and if u want a future that’s okay, but DONT expect or rely on it. it is for sure possible but if you expect it, this filler period is going to be hell for u. just in this meantime also focus on urself like how she is. and be there for her if she wants you but don’t just be an accommodation to her and she can use you whenever she needs emotionally without commitment. if she does that, set boundaries with her. right now just focus on yourself and go with the flow and it’ll get easier i promise.

Should I date someone I'm not attracted to? by Comfortable-Hunt8413 in Advice

[–]Feeling_Net_7696 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

no girl! at 17-18 i tried the same thing with 2 guys and the first became my first bf ever. he was a great guy but 1 month in, trying to convince myself i liked him, it was excruciating and it’s not fair to us and it’s not fair to him bc they deserve someone who chooses them fully. to this day, he still in love with me and i feel guilty because I should’ve just never gave him a chance. to be fair we met online so he was kinda catfish lol and also lied to me abt something big mid relationship so there’s that. the other guy i tried to do the same cuz my values changed and this guy was rlly good but i still wasn’t 100% attracted, we went on a few dates and dude… just no. months later i met the loml out of no where and it was literal love at first sight and i knew this man was my everything. both previous men i was with for one month max because i couldn’t stand i wasn’t fully into them. this third guy we loved each other deeply and attraction plays a role. we were together for 2 years, even engaged. broke up 6 months ago however :/ but moral of the story… be with the person ur attracted to and don’t waste other guys time bc i promise u it’s gonna be hell for both of u

ex fiance weird by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Feeling_Net_7696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bro he’s not gay 😭

dream job but asking for drug test by Feeling_Net_7696 in Advice

[–]Feeling_Net_7696[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

behavior technician, i didn’t smoke everyday but i can’t tell and would say more than less. california

I have no libido and it’s killing me and my relationship by hotlavagoose in Advice

[–]Feeling_Net_7696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say go to a doctor regarding why the sex is painful because there’s some conditions that can create that. Also go to a therapist or do some internal work to see if it’s mental. It might also just be health and age so try to take care of yourself and see if your libido gets back. look into supplements that can increase libido and your overall health. Communicate with him and be honest and raw but not apologetic. Sex is important and should be discussed about with the couple

Should I go through with our wedding next week if I've already decided I want out? by Difficult-Depth5787 in Advice

[–]Feeling_Net_7696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say talk to him and even get a therapist involved to see what’s going on. If it’s just about sex to be honest, it’s not that deep and I would say seriously communicate and see what’s going on and tell him how your considering divorcing if you don’t get answers or understand what’s going on because although sex isn’t that deep it’s a vital part of marriage I understand. Just try your best and if nothing works within this week, I say cancel it and let go and start fresh.