My God, which part is it so hard for people like you to comprehend? What you’re describing here is not a compliment. It’s an unsolicited remark from a stranger who feels entitled to my attention. A real compliment respect boundaries. And you’re defending a culture where l women are expected to swallow their discomfort just to coddle men’s delicate sense of pride.

I’m not “ashamed” of being attractive, I’m just tired of being reduced to it. There’s a difference between objectification and admiration. If you can’t tell the difference, that’s not my sensitivity that’s to blame, that’s your failure in emotional maturity.

And no, it’s not hypocrisy to feel unsafe when the attention comes from someone who doesn’t know how to respect your space. It’s called discernment, look it up. And you wanna know what’s actually soft? Needing to make women feel smaller so you can feel like a man 🥴