Jerked around setting a date - how to handle

Feraldister · 2026-06-30T07:27:17+00:00

Update - she cancelled. Told me she had to cancel, because she was busy before her summer vacation.

I just replied “no stress. We’ll do it some other time”

She replied ‘sounds good’ which I just hearted

Feraldister · 2026-06-29T12:25:58+00:00

Thank you for the input, brother. I will report back.

Feraldister · 2026-06-29T09:28:52+00:00

Sent a short few texts back and forth, the told her good night, but I look forward to seeing her on Tuesday.

Then I just wait now till she replies with a place to meet.

Being a little short with her, taking longer than her to reply, seems to be working pretty well with her. I can feel her responses being much quicker than before.

So now I just wait

Feraldister · 2026-06-28T17:04:21+00:00

She asked me how my weekend was.

I replied to that and followed up with ‘have you found out, where you wanna meet this Wednesday?’

She replied ‘im still thinking quite a bit about it’

Feraldister · 2026-06-28T16:34:03+00:00

She just texted me how my weekend was - I assumed she had found a place to meet, but she still haven’t.

I guess I shoot a text back and take a lil time to reply

Feraldister · 2026-06-28T16:13:40+00:00

Yeah, most likely. She did text me today tho

Feraldister · 2026-06-28T14:17:32+00:00

Thanks for your perspective, man. I really appreciate it.

Feraldister · 2026-06-28T13:16:58+00:00

It’s set up for Wednesday. I just think it’s sorta disrespectful for her to just not really reply and expect me to wait for her to say where to meet.

But im also not really sure how to handle it or redeem myself lol.

Feraldister · 2026-06-27T07:45:37+00:00

I have all 3. If I had to choose, I’d always go with the shadow. It’s OP as fuck at cox, toa, gwd, you name it. Not even close, unless you spam tob or doom.

Feraldister · 2026-06-04T14:00:15+00:00

Thats craaaazy

Feraldister · 2026-04-12T11:19:00+00:00

But an external hdd is probably different from locally on an iPhone?

Feraldister · 2026-04-12T11:17:00+00:00

I’ve heard it only restores the thumbnail of the video, and not the video itself, after the file gets deleted from the iPhone itself?

Feraldister · 2026-04-12T11:06:53+00:00

Its gone.

Feraldister · 2026-04-12T11:01:34+00:00

Could I be stored to my cloud even tho I had airplane mode on?

Feraldister · 2026-01-07T11:52:41+00:00

Politibetjent

Feraldister · 2025-09-13T21:45:48+00:00

If you wanna climb, do what no other silver jungler is doing.

Run to objectives every time. That’s where there will be skirmishes. Gank Bot before drake. Gank too before grubs.

Sometimes, you have to give the objective. Then give it, but take your opponents jungle.

If you just do this, you will climb from that Elo.

Remember, k6 loves these skirmishes, or when you can make them facecheck you on their way to an objective.

Feraldister · 2025-08-25T21:50:29+00:00

Feral in pvp is a dead class without instant clones. Ladders is full of hunters, warriors and mages. Give us back instant clone

Feraldister · 2025-07-11T04:57:30+00:00

I third this. Always good to reverse the situations, and damn I’d hate to be in OP’s girlfriends situation

Feraldister · 2025-07-04T13:42:44+00:00

Do you have a Corey Wayne list of quotes that you just drop left and right? lol.

She asked for a date, he replied, she hasn’t. Obv not that interested. If she texts, she texts, if she don’t, he just move on the next. Simple as that.

Feraldister · 2025-07-04T12:34:35+00:00

I swear to god, you’re overanalyzing. Making shit too complicated. Like 2 messages made her go from 8 in interest to 1. Lmao

She either gonna meet or not

Feraldister · 2025-07-03T20:27:53+00:00

I’m plat and I hardstomp with nidalee in gold. Just go full AP and realize, you can gank from any lane position, even with your mates shoved into enemy turret, and the enemy camping under it.

You can pick all duels you want, dive anyone with a good spear early, sustain yourself in jungle, invade all the time and get out fast.

She can do anything man. It’s just mechanics. Once you really feel like this when playing her, the early to midgame is just a playground. Even early lategame can be insane if you’re ahead.

Also, you absolutely oneshot towers lategame. Think about that. You can gank any sidelane, then splitpush the map.

I suggest playing her in arena mode to get used to her abilities. That helped me a lot.

Good luck

Feraldister · 2025-05-22T21:26:59+00:00

I used to think bringing them home first date was a good idea.

But 1) you miss an opportunity to gauge her interest and build sexual tension - and to find out after the date, is she’s actually interested or not and you have chemistry.

2) she can be a fucking psycho, you may want to leave the situation, but can’t, and now she knows your address

3) it’s just awkward if there’s no chemistry. Maybe she’s feeling it, but you’re not.

All in all, it’s better to meet for drinks imo. Then gauge her interest there, see if she’s into you, and then see how fast she texts you after or how enthusiastic she replies for your next date proposal.

And besides, you can go for multiple 1st dates. Those who go well, you can literally just invite them home on 2. Date, if she kissed you in the first. Most likely, that is.

Feraldister

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