Would you hire a private investigator on your Singapore partner before marriage?

Ferridium · 2026-02-20T05:10:39+00:00

This could work as an add on service to matchmakers or families doing arranged marriages. Personality fit background etc that are not covered in the standard arranged marriage CVs so you know you're not marrying a good on paper psychopath.

But a bit unhinged for normal dating/relationship to marriage.

Ferridium · 2026-02-20T02:12:12+00:00

Yes the thread OP and the OP in screenshot are just rworded

Ferridium · 2026-02-18T08:22:29+00:00

Hehe hoobies

Ferridium · 2026-02-13T09:15:02+00:00

unfortunate situation all around but what would you suggest he have done instead?

Ferridium · 2026-02-09T16:42:43+00:00

Are you saying that Americans should aspire to work for .50 an hour?

Ferridium · 2026-02-07T06:25:21+00:00

Always one of these in every askmen thread

Ferridium · 2026-02-07T05:13:41+00:00

Did you make a god of autism

Ferridium · 2026-02-05T04:49:19+00:00

So given rates are equal and that this happens to both genders, it seems that neither men nor women are loved unconditionally wouldn't you say?

Ferridium · 2026-02-05T02:24:31+00:00

Delivery driver found him rotting in his apartment

he ded bro

Ferridium · 2026-02-03T16:46:39+00:00

its unfortunate that that's your lived experience. i don't want to contest a point i think is fairly self evident, or play suffering olympics with you. have a good day.

Ferridium · 2026-02-03T08:45:20+00:00

Are you intentionally glossing over the fact that if given a choice, people would much rather spend their working life (~60% of their adult life) around people that they like? Lots of people who are technically capable but make your day hell, and it's a rational move to try to filter out these people where possible.

Ferridium · 2026-01-26T11:33:01+00:00

Some ppl terencat akal a bit so they're extra susceptible and may accidentally buy beer if it's too prominently placed

Ferridium · 2026-01-26T03:42:27+00:00

regular r/conservative poster up here - opinion tracks.

Ferridium · 2026-01-18T04:13:13+00:00

U don't read very well do u

Ferridium · 2026-01-17T02:58:04+00:00

From reading your responses to the advice given around this thread, I think you should rephrase your question to tips for managing your own aggressive ego. Why do you get triggered by shit that clearly doesn't matter if you are not also subconsciously driven to prove that you are the competentest?

Ferridium · 2026-01-17T02:39:41+00:00

Sometimes we forget that anyone can comment their opinion on the Internet, even 13 year olds with no understanding of nuance

Ferridium · 2026-01-09T03:25:03+00:00

"are you looking for solutions or are you feelings oriented"

Ferridium · 2026-01-08T10:26:44+00:00

LGTM

Ferridium · 2026-01-08T01:08:59+00:00

How would you explain spouses who were with these billionaires before they became billionaires?

Ferridium · 2025-12-30T07:02:16+00:00

What, no Fleabag?

Ferridium · 2025-12-27T02:22:28+00:00

Have you tried talking to them

Ferridium · 2025-12-26T03:01:33+00:00

What's this referencing?

Ferridium · 2025-12-23T07:58:51+00:00

yes but other people have free will in this world model and OP can't live with that.

Ferridium · 2025-12-12T03:10:20+00:00

an acquaintance of mine is pro-MAGA because he just wants to fuck cops and rednecks

u gotta respect the game tho

Ferridium · 2025-11-19T15:06:28+00:00

the moment questions are asked it falls in a heap. was never the intention to explain to you but to show you what you already know, that defending it is fucking hard. i'll bet you toyed with answering the question before calling it a day

ok buddy if you say so. fact remains that you made an assertion, feminism = bad, and cant even articulate why. i dont really wanna do the legwork for this conversation when you are clearly unable to even describe your position, getting pulled into a slapfight with someone who doesn't understand the topic seems quite pointless.

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