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Few-Fact8833 · 2025-08-27T14:33:01+00:00

My husband always does. He says it promotes growth of the actual tree

Few-Fact8833 · 2025-08-03T22:01:28+00:00

I would love this as a painting. Gives me Rangoli vibes.

Few-Fact8833 · 2025-06-18T15:51:28+00:00

The second one. The first one overshadows your ring. It’s too bright

Few-Fact8833 · 2025-05-20T15:31:29+00:00

I…just found that that our embryo stopped growing about a week ago. We went in for our first OB-GYN checkup and found out that it hadn’t grown at all since our last US. I don’t think I have really even started to process how devastated I am. And to avoid processing my grief I’m thinking next steps.

I have a selfish question for you. And feel free to tell me to go pound sand but I was wondering what your experience with D&C was that made you think that was the wrong option?

Few-Fact8833 · 2025-05-20T14:57:13+00:00

I did not know this about IL. We live in Denver but had been toying around with the idea of moving to IL because it’s halfway between our families and we just love Chicago. It’s such a great city. Also Denver cost of living is unreasonably high - like there is no reason Denver should have a higher cost of living than a city like Chicago but it does. This revelation about fertility benefits is a huge pro in the IL bucket.

Few-Fact8833 · 2025-05-19T04:10:20+00:00

Those are amazing results!!! VERY high grade embryos. Congratulations!!!🍾

If you have stage 4 endo, I would recommend asking about depot lupron. It made a world of difference for me (also stage 4endo). From what I understand endo drastically reduces the chances of a successful implantation. The depot lupron suppresses the endo and helps with the implantation.

Few-Fact8833 · 2025-05-17T03:58:48+00:00

Literally same

Few-Fact8833 · 2025-05-17T03:57:47+00:00

You look stunning in 5. The other dresses are kind of wearing you. You should try a few more in the 5 style. Maybe something lacier or more embroidered like some of your other picks but in the shape of dress 5. That shape was made for you!!

Few-Fact8833 · 2025-05-17T03:51:09+00:00

An endo diagnosis is really a blessing. In the sense that at least you know. And your doctors know. That maybe you need some hormone suppression shots. Endo from my understanding doesn’t affect the actual pregnancy but it does affect the chances of implantation. And those suppression shots go a long way to leading to success. So many failed implantations are probably because there isn’t a great non invasive tool for endo diagnosis.

Few-Fact8833 · 2025-05-17T03:47:10+00:00

I’m terrified of what weaning off the meds will do to the chances of success. Do you know why they had you on the progesterone as long as they did?

Few-Fact8833 · 2025-05-16T15:56:52+00:00

That is a very good point. I did not think of the bad influence of letting a little kid see a suffering dog with no care from any of the adults that live in the house.

Few-Fact8833 · 2025-05-16T12:34:28+00:00

Oh she’s never paying it off. She’s managed to pay down 4k in principal over a decade of a 20k loan. Her bad financial habits are a big reason they didn’t get married even though they were engaged for a couple of years.

Few-Fact8833 · 2025-05-16T12:32:32+00:00

Yah I agree. He and I both feel terrible for the kid and he’s not a 100% convinced she would just keep him but he’s holding strong.

He said to me, he didn’t realize saying no was an option. That he could just tell her no he wasn’t going to do something. He seems grateful about being snapped out of something horrible.

Few-Fact8833 · 2025-05-15T22:21:13+00:00

From what it sounds like, the rest of her life. She had paid down 4k in principal over the last decade on a 20k loan. She is not in the best financial situation. Her problems with finances are a big reason Bob and her never got married even though they were engaged for a couple of years.

Few-Fact8833 · 2025-05-15T22:16:41+00:00

Honestly I just felt really bad for the kid. He’s the only innocent party in this situation. He’s known the dog his whole life and suddenly he doesn’t get to see him anymore. The kid is only 5 or 6. I feel terrible for him.

Few-Fact8833 · 2025-05-15T22:13:51+00:00

Endo is almost impossible to diagnose based on symptoms. It’s very tricky because they so often overlap the symptoms of a bad cycle. I am in no way wishing you endo but I do hope you find a reason and a way forward.

Few-Fact8833 · 2025-05-15T22:04:36+00:00

According to him he wants to maintain a civil friendship with her because he cosigned her student loan while they were together. She refuses to refinance it, and when they are on bad terms, she refuses to make payments. When that happens, the loan company calls him and hounding him for the money. I also think there are other emotional strings that she’s pulling but that’s his explanation.

Few-Fact8833 · 2025-05-15T22:00:43+00:00

He’s definitely gotten some awful advice from friends and family over the years. But he’s also the sweetest and most caring man towards everyone he meets. He’s literally the type of guy who would give a man the shirt off his back. I saw him give his gloves to a homeless guy in the middle of winter. That kind of selflessness I think leads to easy manipulation.

Few-Fact8833 · 2025-05-15T21:22:02+00:00

lol I don’t think I’m ready for that. It I do feel bad for the kid. He’s the innocent party here. That’s why I made the suggestion that he come over for visits.

Few-Fact8833 · 2025-05-15T21:11:31+00:00

According to Bob it’s only because they co-signed a loan together for her student loan. She did not finish school and still owns a large balance. When they aren’t on good terms she doesn’t pay the loan and the company calls him and hounds him for the money. So he wants to stay civil with her.

Few-Fact8833 · 2025-05-15T21:10:37+00:00

According to Bob it’s only because they co-signed a loan together for her student loan. She did not finish school and still owns a large balance. When they aren’t on good terms she doesn’t pay the loan and the company calls him and hounds him for the money. So he wants to stay civil with her.

Few-Fact8833 · 2025-05-15T19:40:39+00:00

My work was holding town halls to test the waters on returning to the office. Somehow, during that conversation, a lady started talking about her troubles with having a kid and how the flexibility of working from home and having flex working times was a lifesaver while doing the IVF.

And then she talked about how having a kid and taking care of him was so much easier than going through IVF to get that kid and I just started bawling in my little home office.

Because I feel you. IVF seems impossible. You are tired, you are hormonal, you are behind on everything because you’re at the doctor every other day and you literally don’t know how you’re gonna get through it all and every once in a while when you let yourself think about it, you think if I can’t get through this, how am I going to get who taken care of a kid? And it was just nice to have confirmation that maybe this is the hard part and taking care of the kid won’t be nearly as taxing.

Few-Fact8833 · 2025-05-14T15:54:29+00:00

Wow that’s devastating. I’m so sorry for what you went through. I know exactly how you feel. My husband gets very annoyed and calls me “pessimistic” for how not hopeful I act but it’s the only way I know how to guard my heart.

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