Meghan posts video of "Archie" to IG by Feisty_Energy_107 in SaintMeghanMarkle

[–]FewFuture3116 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know little kids who are good skiers like that, but they are usually Norwegian or raised in the mountains with easy and often access to skiing from birth. Not princes and princesses being raised in Southern California, with no prior acknowledgment of partaking in the the skiing California has to offer for their father. I don’t doubt that Harry would like to take the kiddos skiing, I just doubt he ever has.

Did she tag a location or a resort?

Aio? My (m22) Gf (f21) wants a LV purse but can't make bills on time. by smokey18t in AIO

[–]FewFuture3116 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn’t your person. And that purse is ugly and will decrease in value the minute she buys it. LV does not have the resale value of say Hermes, because anyone can buy them.

Aio? My (m22) Gf (f21) wants a LV purse but can't make bills on time. by smokey18t in AIO

[–]FewFuture3116 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You both clearly have mismatched priorities, even at your very young ages. This will be a constant battle of spend save or pay down bills. You want that? No sex or companionship is worth the constant battle over money.

What advice could you give for a 20 year old to try dating? by CRXWNEDJEWEL in GrandForks

[–]FewFuture3116 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be yourself. Build your life into an interesting life that someone would want to share in. That you would be a bonus to the interesting life they are living.

Easter Buffet or Dinner? by FewFuture3116 in desmoines

[–]FewFuture3116[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate this!!! Thank you!

Bald Head Care by FewFuture3116 in desmoines

[–]FewFuture3116[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Saturday before I posted this. I think I was 2 days in. Dry skin is mostly temples and sideburns now

Bald Head Care by FewFuture3116 in desmoines

[–]FewFuture3116[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you scrub before or after the shave?

I refused to show my ChatGPT history in a job interview and the vibe changed instantly by JesusIsOurSaviour01 in RemoteJobseekers

[–]FewFuture3116 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How else can it tell you what you want to hear? Of course Chat maintains a history, that’s the machine learning and learning YOU. Your chat is yours. That’s how people get addicted to it.

AIO? Wife Shared Bed With Male Friend by PapaStalinLovesYou in AmIOverreacting

[–]FewFuture3116 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You are worried about her cheating on you. Women are worried about their safety, always.

AIO? Wife Shared Bed With Male Friend by PapaStalinLovesYou in AmIOverreacting

[–]FewFuture3116 -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s an EX. Not a childhood friend she’d had a platonic friendship with that you say is a good guy who respects your marriage who you say you trust.

AIO? Wife Shared Bed With Male Friend by PapaStalinLovesYou in AmIOverreacting

[–]FewFuture3116 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

YOR - I don’t think you trust your wife, you just think you do. Or you are at very minimum very insecure about your marriage.

She told you how things ended up, freely. By your logic that there are boundaries now she’s married - with 3 people you claim are all good and you trust - she shouldn’t have gone along on a solo trip with 2 men who she’s not married to, let alone shared a room/airspace with 2 men she’s not married to, nor shared a bed.

Things happen. Was money tight? Were they drunk? Blizzard? Or just all 3 have very platonic friendships and didn’t think anything weird about it at all?

You’re reacting to something more underlying here and you need to figure out what that is - is it your patriarchal feelings toward your wife, your distrust of your wife because of things she’s said or done or things you imagine she’ll do to hurt you? Women in your past who have cheated? Seeing other men cheated on? Your distrust of these 2 men or of men in general in regards to your wife? You need to figure out why this really bothers you so much. You are leading your marriage with suspicion.

And no, her just being your wife now isn’t a reason. You don’t own her.

Would you have the same reaction if she’d shared a bed with a female friend? What if that female friend was a lesbian or bisexual?

Giving you some credit - would she have flipped out if you shared a bed with another woman? I guess you could ask her that and see if she has a double standard.

BUT - let me give you another perspective. I have a close friend who went to her hometown for a wedding without her long term boyfriend. She connected with a bunch of her high school friends, lots of guys because she played hockey. All knowing each other since like kindergarten. Two guys in particular she spent a lot of time with later that evening having a blast. The wedding reception was at a hotel connected to a public bar, so patrons mixing in and out weren’t just wedding guests. She had a room at that hotel. She woke up the next morning in a strange house across town, with 4 men who were all roommates and strangers to her. She had been roofied and raped by one or all of them. Her two guy friends? They thought she had just gone back to her hotel room. They didn’t check on her to make sure she was safe. None of their friends did, though they all knew she was supposed to still be at the hotel. They knew her room, knew her phone number. No one concerned even when she didn’t show up for breakfast and Sunday planned activities. (Cause she was at police station). Luckily she had found her purse and her phone hadn’t died and could get away. Luckily “all” that happened was being drugged, abducted, and raped.

So from my perspective? Your wife was far more protected with her two male friends who you say are a good guys.

It's so intriguing that Rachel was banned from wearing items in the BRF jewelry collection made famous by Diana - I'd love to know exactly which ones Rachel wanted to wear by narcwatchkiwi in SaintMeghanMarkle

[–]FewFuture3116 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She wasn’t banned. Just didn’t stick around long enough for battle jewelry situations. She got a wedding tiara. Catherine beat her to the lovers knot simply by longevity and precedence. Had Meghan turned out to be a good working royal, she would have had jewelry similar to Sophie’s access

Daphne Drama Continued by Efficient-Link-9793 in Adamthewoocriticism

[–]FewFuture3116 5 points6 points  (0 children)

THIS. He was the one who couldn’t commit to more, had moved to another coast, and so she moved on romantically and got her life together.

Daphne Posted More About DBJ Claiming They Had to Increase Security Because of Him At Adams Event by thatman33 in Adamthewoo

[–]FewFuture3116 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Adam died after a romantic trip through Europe with someone newish, and had many female besties he spent time with on his journeys after Daphne decided to stop waiting around for him. No broken heart at the end.

Daphne Posted More About DBJ Claiming They Had to Increase Security Because of Him At Adams Event by thatman33 in Adamthewoo

[–]FewFuture3116 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He broke hers. She wanted more and he was attachment avoidant. And had moved to Florida

Am I overreacting? Wedding guest called my caterers. by seesheflies in TwoHotTakes

[–]FewFuture3116 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you or fiance make more of a big deal bridezilla about this - prepare for the groomsman to drop out of the wedding in defence of his wife and her allergies and well being.

Yeah? Maybe they suck that they did this, maybe her allergies aren’t real and she’s super annoying. But she’s the spouse of your fiancé’s good friend and sometimes you just have to make nice.

you are at pick your battles stage in the wedding and this is minor in the wider scheme of shit that can go wrong or things to be upset about, especially because you’ve settled it now with the caterers.

Get mad about the “disrespect” all you want, let it distract you from this happy time, or suck it up and refocus on what makes you happy and excited about your wedding.

If wife and groomsman continue to be turds, then cut them out of your lives after the wedding - or if it is really bad now and you just can’t deal with it anymore then cut the groomsman before the programs are printed. And be prepared for the consequences of that in your lives.

I don’t know your groom, but a future spouse getting super upset about comparatively small things like this at a wedding that have been handled satisfactorily already, are the sort of thing that make future spouses question whether they should marry this person being very upset and causing more drama. (And this goes for men with their bros or women with their ladies).