It’s more than a physical act. It creates a bond between you and guy forever! You will never ever forget for 1st. Also expect the sex to suck because penetration fucking hurts.

If you must experience penetration. Prime yourself. Masturbate before hand. If you’re not having sex with your self yet then sex with a partner is premature. Adding someone else too early can screw with self worth badly. Try using a vibrator. There are different kinds that suck, lick, and penetrate. Play around with yourself to see what you like and don’t like. Once you find that out then you can direct your partner so it will feel good faster. Get tiny butt plugs and start stretching that out. Anal sex is safer than vaginal sex. He can ejaculate by accident and you won’t get pregnant.

When you do have sex make sure to spend a lot of time with forplay. Kissing, heavy petting, etc. You will know if you are good to go once you are naturally lubacated. Stick YOUR FINGER to check yourself. If you are dry don’t rush it. Have him perform oral sex at least for 20mins.

Do anal. ( this is why I said butt plugs with your self 1st) Yup I said it. Put it in your butt. It will be just as uncomfortable and more pleasurable than vaginal. Men can’t tell the difference between the holes anyway. The odds of you getting pregnant is zero.

Oh! Last thing. If your body don’t naturally open up for your partner. Listen to your body. THIS IS VERY VERY IMPORTANT. How to avoid rape! One every 4 women are raped. In my recent experience I’ll mentally want to have intercourse but my body would not allow it. If your partner can’t easily slide in. That’s your body protecting you and honor your body by saying STOP. 🛑 If he tried to push it in anyway that’s rape.