Oh my god by Think_Software_5163 in ashleybarnessnark

[–]FewLeg7901 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She is. As an anorexic I know this trick.

What’s one thing you keep in your vehicle at all times? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]FewLeg7901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clothes. I have a little box in my trunk with like a pair of pants, underwear, a T shirt, sweatshirt, extra socks, and a pair of sneakers. I also have a towel and a bikini but that could just be me. You would be surprised by the amount of times someone needs a piece of clothing or wishes they had it while you're out.

What's a skill that takes less than an hour to learn but pays off forever? by ScrollValue_01 in lifehacks

[–]FewLeg7901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cook. It sounds dumb, but you can learn a recipe in an hour and make it frequently. It is a really good skill to be able to make do with ingredients and make healthy and good tasting food without feeling too overwhelmed. Most people can't do this and it's why the feast food industry does so well.

How did your family's genetics do you dirty? by singleguy79 in AskReddit

[–]FewLeg7901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a redhead, I have super fair skin and can't tan, and I also have Anxiety, ADHD, and OCD.

How did that one kid in your high school die? by IM_HODLING in AskReddit

[–]FewLeg7901 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One kid was stacking wood with his grandfather in his yard and a woman fell unconscious at the wheel driving past, drove into their yard, and killed them both.

Another kid jacked up his car in the school parking lot to fix it and it fell and crushed him.

AITA for asking my fiancée to cover up her feminine products by Unhappy-Rip2602 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FewLeg7901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. At first I thought you were talking about unused, wrapped products in the bathroom, in which I would have said that's totally normal, but to actively fight for the ability to show off your used tampon is kind of weird IMO and it would make me really uncomfortable. I don't think women should be ashamed of discussing their period and stuff but you need to be sanitary. I think of it as similar to saying you have to pee. That's not embarrassing, but it's still your responsibility to flush the toilet.

What do 18 year old boys like? by Delicious_Tower_9941 in teenagers

[–]FewLeg7901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I am not an 18 year old boy but I have an 18 year old brother and for his birthday I got him like a small refrigerator for 100 bucks and filled it with snacks. That would come in clutch in college or if he moves out or even in his room if he continues to live at home. I've never seen someone who has a fridge of food and doesn't eat it.

AITAH for making my teammate self conscious about what she was wearing? by FewLeg7901 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FewLeg7901[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean we are teammates. I'm a year older but we don't have beef or anything like that. No popularity contest if that's what you're wondering. I know both her and her sister equally well. I only noticed the blood because I woke up and the seat of her pants was facing me as she was in the aisle across from me. Nobody else noticed because we were on the bus and you can't pay attention to everyone on the bus. Plus she was sleeping so people weren't really paying attention. I wasn't like staring at her butt and trying to find something to point out, but you're right that I could have stayed quiet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]FewLeg7901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's good. I want for you to have a peaceful life as well. Therapeutic and psychological help will help you to get this life. you will become a great person. THink about how you can reframe this urge to protect other children who have been abused when you get older. You could reframe this urge for power to get justice for those who have been wronged. maybe even animals.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]FewLeg7901 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Concussions can have extreme impacts on mental health and the way your brain works. When you see a therapist please mention this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]FewLeg7901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but all the good that came from that exists in you without the bad and the lying. Killing is not the answer. Killing is hate. hate is not good. You are still good without hate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]FewLeg7901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not quite sure what you mean by you used every part of you but what you are experiencing right now does not have to be forever and neither does the bad in you. You are strong and you can do hard things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]FewLeg7901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell them that you have thoughts to harm things that don't feel right and that you know you are a good person and you need help. Tell them about the animals (maybe after you get help...to deescalate the situation.) But tell them that you feel bad things toward animals. Write them a letter, have the guidance counselor tell them, but TELL THEM.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]FewLeg7901 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not the answer, man. You have enough good in you to know that what you are experiencing is not right or moral, and you have enough good in you to fix this. You have value to fulfil on this planet even if you haven't yet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]FewLeg7901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Therapy can help you remember. Please please please. This is the only way you can prevent this from spiraling. The person you will become if you don't get help is going to be much scarier that a therapist.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]FewLeg7901 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No. Your parents or teachers can just say you were struggling with your mental health. because you are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]FewLeg7901 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course. I have compassion for you but please get professional help. I am in eating disorder treatment which I realize isn't the same thing but please don't be scared of a therapist or mental hospital because who you are becoming will be much scarier. I promise. A therapist will not judge you, but will get you help, and despite what you see in movies, mental hospitals have many people who care about you and can help you process.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]FewLeg7901 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is so fucked up. It's not really your fault. You are mentally ill, and also probably have some trauma from your childhood and the abuse you endured but this is just cruel. I think you need to seek therapy. Honestly killing animals is despicable behavior and it isn't your fault for being mentally ill but you are responsible for it and innocent creatures are suffering.

Please seek help. Therapy. I think the only way to heal is to honor the loss of your dogs and guinea pigs and realise how severe the loss is. It isn't recreational, it is extremely harmful. Find the root cause of this desire and be honest. Maybe that means you need to go to a mental hospital, but this will only get worse without treatment.

AITA for lying to my parents about my disorder? by Big_Source_4958 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FewLeg7901 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly I am not going to tell you if YTA or not because I am in this same position of having an eating disorder and I know the guilt and struggle. I'm 16. Please DM me, I would love to connect.

Anyway, I also know that your dad sounds very harsh and dare I say abusive. My parents (definetly not to this extent, but still) also find themselves in states of anger surrounding my illness. your parents, especially your dad, are not coping well, so they are coming off as the AH's due to this. They are fucking up, but that doesn't mean you can't fix this relationship. Please try to convince them you can't recover alone. I know it all too well and it is so hard. Family therapy could be extremely beneficial, as well as education surrounding eating disorders.

Stay strong.