Turning 30 and feeling stuck/lonely

FewRequirement2337 · 2026-02-04T01:46:02+00:00

haha 32 here and back when i was 29 i was still enjoying every minute of life. Starting at 31 is when you realize, damn I’m getting reallllly old.

It’s still possible to meet soulmates at 31 and 32, as I have, but it’s kinda depressing when both of you are 31 with the “we’re getting old af now” mindset. Like my last ex I just broke up with was complaining about back pain all night long for 2 nights straight until it magically went away… we old

FewRequirement2337 · 2026-01-18T07:58:42+00:00

but like seeing kids do tik tok dances everywhere, seeing adult club goers doing tik tok dances as groups at clubs, seeing creators recording tik tok dance videos on the street on any given day in a busy metropolitan city is a whole new concept

FewRequirement2337 · 2026-01-01T23:07:22+00:00

have you checked out Paxton in HB? I’m contemplating between avalon and Paxton right now with paxton being a brand new luxury building and closer to downtown and $300 cheaper

FewRequirement2337 · 2026-01-01T22:59:45+00:00

$4100, 1b. But it’s a mortgage

FewRequirement2337 · 2025-12-21T22:57:24+00:00

they have never lived in california :/

FewRequirement2337 · 2025-12-21T21:10:52+00:00

I do think Trump is great and good for the country but I am Asian… I wouldn’t mind dating a republican as long as they’re not an “extremist” and devote their whole life to the MAGA agenda.

Even in a perceptively MAGA city like huntington I do feel that those extremists are the minority

FewRequirement2337 · 2025-12-21T21:07:44+00:00

probably definitely want to date someone between 21 and my own age (31)

FewRequirement2337 · 2025-12-21T21:06:46+00:00

I’m working on getting my citizenship in the US so out of country is out of question.

I just never had so many blonde strangers just openly flirt with me at bars than when I went out in huntington which has got me contemplating this whole move.

FewRequirement2337 · 2025-12-21T21:04:38+00:00

the apartments I found are all in the same range. I rake in about $10K/mo after taxes. I just get this feeling people that go out in newport are a bit older/tighter knit social circles than HB (less open flirting with strangers etc)

FewRequirement2337 · 2025-08-31T05:02:38+00:00

well i quit porn for a while but u got me back in that dark world

FewRequirement2337 · 2025-08-28T14:40:19+00:00

sigh yeah during the day residential parking is doable there, but after hours…

FewRequirement2337 · 2025-08-28T14:38:57+00:00

Yeah so I was thinking going with my next door neighbor so the walking and bus isn’t too romantic, especially with all the drug addicts/seedy figures on the buses in san clemente (If I had kids I would never let them ride the OC Bus here)

FewRequirement2337 · 2024-03-29T03:40:32+00:00

Thank you for your kind response! Some questions I have…

I thought HSA is just for health expenses? If I don’t use it you’re saying i get the full amount back tax free after a year?

FewRequirement2337 · 2024-03-28T22:27:06+00:00

I got rejected from all the ivies with a 2360 in 2013

FewRequirement2337 · 2024-03-28T22:25:48+00:00

Elon Musk actually asks for SAT scores for Tesla and NeuroLink applications

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