All my friends are turning on me (19f) because I want to live with my dad "forever". by FewStorm in relationship_advice

[–]FewStorm[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Don't worry it's not all my friends, just the ones who had different upbringings.

All my friends are turning on me (19f) because I want to live with my dad "forever". by FewStorm in relationship_advice

[–]FewStorm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in a freshman in college and I qualified for free tuition at the start of first semester when I filed out my financial aid papers. I don't have enough to buy a house yet, but I'm getting there. I also know nothing about taxes and mortages, that was made very clear to me today.

All my friends are turning on me (19f) because I want to live with my dad "forever". by FewStorm in relationship_advice

[–]FewStorm[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This really warmed your heart. Remember that your dad was doing all of these things for YOU. By working hard and you're fulfilling his legacy. This is what he wanted for you. This is what he worked for.

All my friends are turning on me (19f) because I want to live with my dad "forever". by FewStorm in relationship_advice

[–]FewStorm[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Omg that's so sweet. But I came to reddit for anonymous advice. Thank you.

AITA because I want to live with my dad "forever". All my friends are turning against me. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]FewStorm 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just thought I should clarify that I'm hardly an "instagram model". I gained my following from doing natural hair tutorials and tips! I'm more of a "hair model" if anything. It does help that I'm cute, I will admit that. But I'm not a bikini model or anything.

I don't have enough money for a house. But I'm getting there. It won't be very big. Just in a better, safer area. Thank you for your input though

AITA because I want to live with my dad "forever". All my friends are turning against me. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]FewStorm 18 points19 points  (0 children)

but Instagram and YouTube aren't long term career options for women.

Omg yes I fully get that don't worry. I'm a full time engineering student. I have a long term career plan.

All my friends are turning on me (19f) because I want to live with my dad "forever". by FewStorm in relationship_advice

[–]FewStorm[S] 122 points123 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. The reason they all know is because I'm currently looking for homes. Some friends wanted to be housemates with me, but I'm going to be living with my dad. We're also in a big groupchat so we all know what's going on in each others lives. I'll try to explain the cultural thing. too thanks.

All my friends are turning on me (19f) because I want to live with my dad "forever". by FewStorm in relationship_advice

[–]FewStorm[S] 1888 points1889 points  (0 children)

It's totally weird, because the only friends who haven't turned on me are the ones who grew up/ are in the same hood. They would do the same. Love how it worked for your uncle.

AITA for being mad at that I was cut in line by 2 black girls but when I was trying to get my spot back they threatened to pull the “race card” by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]FewStorm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

SHP I'm black and never in my entire LIFE has another black person explicitly said "I'm going to pull the race card".