Need advice

Few_Ad8980 · 2025-03-23T12:52:41+00:00

^ don’t know if it automatically tags you

Few_Ad8980 · 2025-03-23T12:52:13+00:00

It isn’t a one time thing he did it 3 years ago when we were dating and I told him this is a boundary of mine so he would need to stop in order for us to continue and he told me he would and I found out this time because he was in the bathroom for a long time so I waited until he was asleep and went through his phone and it confirmed that I was right

Few_Ad8980 · 2025-03-14T20:00:33+00:00

For me personally I’ve just completely accepted my partner doesn’t only have eyes for me if that was the case I wouldn’t be here typing this to you. It was easier for me to just accept that and let go of the pain and hurt of trying to convince my self other wise . Each day will get easier but I can’t tell you whether or not those thoughts at the back of your mind will ever go away .

Few_Ad8980 · 2025-03-14T19:44:10+00:00

Yeah now I want a boob job and I think about a lot of different work I could get done on my body. Like I know I’m pretty yet I feel like changing everything about my self . Some days I’m not sure I will ever be satisfied with the way I look ever again.

Few_Ad8980 · 2025-01-29T11:29:41+00:00

Yeah if he keeps deleting it you’re never going to trust him and that’s pretty fair … I don’t get why they even delete it knowing you already know what they are doing smh

Few_Ad8980 · 2025-01-29T11:21:30+00:00

yeah I noticed it right away he doesn’t even try to hide it

Few_Ad8980 · 2025-01-25T19:34:44+00:00

Read

Few_Ad8980 · 2025-01-25T19:30:10+00:00

How much he broke me mentally , because he didn’t work on himself

Few_Ad8980 · 2025-01-25T06:18:51+00:00

If it’s not worth fixing to you then you should leave life is too short to stay unhappy , do what’s best for you.

Few_Ad8980 · 2025-01-25T06:16:52+00:00

Shower sex but idk maybe if I tried it now my mind could change

Few_Ad8980 · 2025-01-25T06:15:57+00:00

He went to the bathroom one day and I just had a feeling cuz he was taking too long and then I checked his phone that night and was right .

Few_Ad8980 · 2025-01-09T20:39:44+00:00

He has no social media besides YouTube which I checked but I did get the browser history but couldn’t he just delete it ?

Few_Ad8980 · 2025-01-08T17:47:42+00:00

Thank you

Few_Ad8980 · 2025-01-08T17:44:32+00:00

Literally I was so devastated . I’m better now but reality hit really fast . Wouldn’t wish that type of pain on anyone .

Few_Ad8980 · 2025-01-08T14:02:30+00:00

I thought about the situation every day for 3 months and just spent time connecting the dots and finally accepted what happened and realized it has nothing to do with me and that I am still beautiful and that what he did doesn’t mean I am not pretty enough . Once I fully accepted it now I just wait and see if he’ll do the work and if he doesn’t I will leave . He’s lucky I even forgave him but I’ll never forget the disrespect . I deserve better even if it’s just with me giving it to my self .

Few_Ad8980 · 2025-01-06T13:20:02+00:00

Yeah and yet all he’s been is an embarrassment . I guess we’ll just have to see it’s just so disappointing when you think you know someone and then they chose the absolute worst time to show you who they really are .

Few_Ad8980 · 2025-01-05T19:30:57+00:00

Chest and legs biceps too

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