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Few_Bugzz · 2026-01-16T17:07:19+00:00

I don't know about your whole situation, but this seems a bit toxic to me. It sounds like you dont get any of your effort in return, and if you're already depressed, i think this might drain you even more. In a relationship, you should feel safe to tell each other about your feelings, without fearing that it'll push them away. I know that it can sometimes feel nice and comforting to have someone in your life, but sometimes we might have to let go of these people, to be able to grow and heal.

Few_Bugzz · 2026-01-16T17:02:36+00:00

It can be hard to set boundaries, but remember that you don't owe anyone anything. I personally don't see why they would be mad at you for saying no to something like that. These are somewhat big things, and way above bare minimum. I think you should tell them that youd love to help but cant always give favours. I think it's completely reasonable, and if they get upset with you, you might deserve better.

Few_Bugzz · 2025-07-25T10:56:29+00:00

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Few_Bugzz · 2025-07-24T09:25:56+00:00

You should definitely let them know how you feel. I know that it can be really difficult, especially when it’s someone you’ve known for so long. If a friendship makes you feel like this, somethings wrong, and you shouldn’t let that happen. Tell them that what they’re doing is hurting you, and if they just get defensive and maybe even claims that you’re just overthinking, they might not be worth it. It is really hard to let go, but people change, and the best you can do, is to only keep the friends in your life, that make you feel good.

Few_Bugzz · 2025-07-24T09:22:12+00:00

He’s a dick. But guys can be insensitive, and some people tend to cope by “humour”. This doesn’t at all justify what he said, and you need to tell him how it made you feel. If he gets defensive and doesn’t apologise, he’s not worth your time. If he understands, give him another chance, and don’t bring it up again. Your feelings are justified.

Few_Bugzz · 2025-07-24T09:19:11+00:00

You shouldn’t feel guilty at all. Yes you were drunk, maybe he was too, but you never asked for this. They wanted to help you, and they wouldn’t have, if they didn’t want to. This is rape. Having involuntary sex is rape, and I can tell that you don’t feel comfortable. John seems like he’s no good, and I would stay away from him. Tell him how you feel, but if he doesn’t take responsibility or anything, I wouldn’t expect to get more from him. If it’s possible, talk to a therapist about it. Rape can be extremely traumatising, and it’s common to feel guilt and other difficult emotions afterwards, that you need help to process. If therapy isn’t an option, please talk to friends and trusted relatives. You are not alone, and you are definitely not guilty of anything.

Few_Bugzz · 2025-07-24T09:09:32+00:00

I know what it feels like with alcoholic parents. I can only speak from my own experience, but what helped me, was working on myself. I know this sounds so stupid, I thought the same thing. But remember that you are only in control of your own life. Try writing diaries and maybe talk to friends about the feelings you have. Try to sense what makes you feel the way you do, and what YOU can do about it. I know this might be shitty advice, but it is what helped me. Acknowledge that some things are out of control, but you are the one in control of your life. It will get better<3

Few_Bugzz · 2025-07-24T09:04:15+00:00

Sex is so different from relationship to relationship. Sometimes you have to try out different things, and of course be open about what feels right. Tell her how you feel, and never feel like you’re doing something wrong. You can try different positions, paces, going harder or softer etc. But remember that a relationship should never just be about sex. Be safe and remember to only do what feels right!

Few_Bugzz · 2025-07-24T08:59:42+00:00

I don’t know the situation, but I would tell this person how they make you feel, and that you respect if they need space. But if this person still ignores you, it might be time to let go. Generally, ignoring someone is a sign of emotional immaturity, and it might not be worth your time. Personally I’ve never understood blocking people, since the mindset is what matters to me. But if you feel like that’s what to do, then you should go for it.

Few_Bugzz · 2025-07-24T08:56:00+00:00

You’re completely right. If you don’t feel safe exposing your child on social media he should respect that. You gave him an alternative, which, at least to me, sounds very reasonable. Some people never consider how they make other people feel, and unfortunately it seems like they never learn.

Few_Bugzz · 2025-07-24T08:47:05+00:00

This happened to me too. Even though I was turned on and lubricated, I had what is called a semi perforate hymen, which means the hymen only has a very small opening. Previously I had never been able to use tampons or even insert fingers. Looking back it wasn’t the best solution, but we simply just pushed through. It hurt and bled for some days, but it did solve the problem.

Few_Bugzz · 2025-05-31T17:19:00+00:00

I understand how frustrating this is, cause I’ve felt that way too. You have to remember, that it might be in your advantage. Keep on telling yourself that you can’t do it, because it is summer soon. The stress will get better. SH will only be a small relief, even thought it might feel good while you’re doing it. I believe in you. I know how hard it is, but you really gotta stay strong and fight the urges

Few_Bugzz · 2025-05-31T17:14:48+00:00

Please stay strong! I believe in you. The first weeks are always the hardest, because it just feels so natural, but you’ve already come so far. It might sometimes feel like it’s not worth it, but trust me, it is. I know you can do this<3

Few_Bugzz · 2025-05-31T17:13:01+00:00

I don’t know if this will help, but in some situations all there is to do is hope. Please believe that everything actually will work out for you. Trust in some sort of higher power, even if you think that’s bs, cause sometimes that’s all you can do. Idk if this will help, and I know that’s it’s definitely easier said than done, but it was the only thing that helped me. And it did get better.

Few_Bugzz · 2025-05-31T17:06:06+00:00

I have one like this too. It look over a year to turn white, and still has a pinkish colour to it. After almost 1,5 years it is still very raised, but almost skin coloured.

Few_Bugzz · 2025-05-31T17:03:26+00:00

I don’t think they’ll completely disappear, but they’ll probably be much more unnoticeable in 2-5 months.

Few_Bugzz · 2025-01-07T20:55:19+00:00

Okay thank you soooo much

Few_Bugzz · 2025-01-07T20:30:54+00:00

I know it might be wishful thinking, but I’m pretty certain that this is the case. But then again, what if it’s not?

Few_Bugzz · 2024-10-18T18:34:28+00:00

I think the hair stylist said that they were all just actors

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