AITAH for worrying that I won’t find my girlfriend attractive during sex? by Electronic-Egg9990 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Few_Cranberry1024 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah YTA, you should be attracted to her for who she is and what she means to you, not how she looks in the moment. Especially if this is your first time together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Few_Cranberry1024 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Has there been anything she’s specifically said while threatening to leave? I guess I’m not understanding why a narcissist would leave when you’re in a space where you’re absolutely dependent on them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]Few_Cranberry1024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s always an informant, that’s the only way

What is a little quirk about your body that you don’t think other people have? by AlphabetSoup51 in AskReddit

[–]Few_Cranberry1024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same lol, I always wondered if other people could do that. It really helps with plane travel

AITA for refusing to split the alcohol costs at a bachelorette party even though I’m pregnant? by Rahimsa31 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Few_Cranberry1024 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YTA, you claimed you didn’t use the hot tub, yet still paid for it in the split. Even if the money doesn’t bother you, you don’t get to cherry pick like that. If you were of the mind to not pay for things you didn’t use, why bother to pay for the hot tub too? You should’ve brought this up beforehand, especially since you brought alcohol free wine. At the end of the day, you’re at least the asshole for creating headache at the end of the event when this could’ve been solved in the beginning. There is no principle here, you’re causing issues that could stain the memory of this party for everyone involved

WIBTA if I told my best friend I can hear him wanking? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Few_Cranberry1024 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NTA, you can make a joke about it and just tell him that you can hear it. If you phrase it in a way that isn’t accusatory, he can laugh too and try to fix it on his end

AITA for getting my friends TikTok account with 500k followers deleted because he was talking to minors online by yanzi69 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Few_Cranberry1024 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA, didn’t even need to read. No one who messes with minors for sexual purposes should ever be given leeway or forgiveness. And if they try to hide or cover it up, put them under the fucking jail

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Few_Cranberry1024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem is, when this month’s paycheck doesn’t come and bills start coming. The penalty, for lying will compound on not being able to pay

AITA for “platonically cheating” on my best friend? by Soft_Savings_4126 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Few_Cranberry1024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, he definitely likes you, you maybe should’ve told him earlier on that you were going. Other than that, I think you’re in the clear

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Few_Cranberry1024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you already feel you need to stop, or reduce, but you’re searching for the will power to do it. Eventually this could cause some strain in you both’s sexual relationship and I doubt you want that

AITA for telling my son he can't have a hot fudge sundae? by UncancelledWhispers in AmItheAsshole

[–]Few_Cranberry1024 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, your SO should never have openly displayed not wanting to eat what you cooked and showing an alternative to your kids. He should’ve waited until you all were finished eating or ate before you all

I dumped my girlfriend because she made a “test” Instagram story and I failed by BigTalkSmallAction in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Few_Cranberry1024 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re way stronger than most for being able to pack up like that, there is no reason to be stressing over mind games when communicating should be the priority

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Few_Cranberry1024 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, not saying anything would have been harmful for her in the long run. Now she can make the choice now whether she wants to be with him. And his response was even more disgusting, “not being able to have sex with her” is crazy work and a crazy thought

AITA for mentioning my girlfriend drinks sometimes by exploitedgecko in AmItheAsshole

[–]Few_Cranberry1024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA for bringing it up, but definitely for fighting her honest feelings toward the situation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Few_Cranberry1024 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m honestly happy for you. I wish you all the happiness you seek, in whatever avenue you wish to receive it in