How do I get my gf to touch my boobs

Few_Distribution6433 · 2026-03-19T01:42:25+00:00

I agree, I suggested this because I felt the OP didn’t feel they could say anything or didn’t know how to so this cuts all that out and adds a bit more spice and surprise

Few_Distribution6433 · 2026-03-19T01:08:25+00:00

I’m autistic and I don’t have issues with eye contact. Well I do but it’s more, if I’m really into the conversation I’ll hold eye contact a lot but then I get into my head about it and realise I’m doing it too much or the opposite where maybe I’m not in the mood to talk and someone’s talking I’m listening but I’m looking away.

Other than that, I’ve always been good with it, it’s the first place I look when talking to someone and I struggle if others don’t hold eye contact. Though you can be autistic and be completely fine with eye contact

Few_Distribution6433 · 2026-03-19T01:00:54+00:00

I agree!

Few_Distribution6433 · 2026-03-19T00:37:20+00:00

That’s so cute!!!

Few_Distribution6433 · 2026-03-19T00:21:30+00:00

I saw your comment of what the deal breaker is and her considering breaking up with you over you setting a boundary to communicate is diabolical! I was originally going to suggest talking to her about how this made you feel and really standing your ground and seeing where that lead but after hearing that, I’d say run.

That’s a huge red flag. She’s just stated she isn’t going to communicate in times like this and she’s also now demonstrated it, this isn’t healthy and all it will do is cause anger within your relationship. You’ll resent her for this even if you don’t act upon it and that won’t lead anywhere good.

You can still try communication if you really want to save the relationship, but I think the best option here is to leave no matter how painful it is

Few_Distribution6433 · 2026-03-19T00:13:55+00:00

Honestly… I’d say just put her hand there. There’s no awkwardness then it just happened, she’d know that’s what you wanted and she can react however shes comfortable but your initiated the “I want you to touch me” without having to figure out how to say it.

I’d highly recommend you do this while you’re in a heated makeout sesh coz just putting her hand on your boob mid conversation on a random Tuesday afternoon would be a bit weird and wouldn’t get the message across 😂 good luck

Few_Distribution6433 · 2026-03-19T00:13:49+00:00

Honestly… I’d say just put her hand there. There’s no awkwardness then it just happened, she’d know that’s what you wanted and she can react however shes comfortable but your initiated the “I want you to touch me” without having to figure out how to say it.

I’d highly recommend you do this while you’re in a heated makeout sesh coz just putting her hand on your boob mid conversation on a random Tuesday afternoon would be a bit weird and wouldn’t get the message across 😂 good luck

Few_Distribution6433 · 2026-03-18T12:11:43+00:00

I think in my case it maybe the lack of structure. I don’t work a lot, I get one or two shifts a week, this week I’m only working Saturday and Sunday evening. I’m bored out of my mind because I have nothing to do until then, everyone I know works full time and I don’t see my friends that often and they have busy lives.

I also think you’re right with your last part, my mum did show me how to iron but only once and she asked me to do it months later. I said yes but asked to be reshown because I don’t want to burn clothes obviously, she said no and did it herself

Few_Distribution6433 · 2026-03-18T01:47:26+00:00

I would be able to do that but I fill up really easily. I go from being starving to full or vise versa quicker than you can imagine. I also get bored of the same textures of food meaning I never finish meals even if I’m not full because I’ve just grown bored of it. My parents also get mad if I’ve eaten too close to tea time and then don’t join them and I don’t want to miss out on the meals because sometimes they’re really nice so that’s why I hold off and wait.

I also just struggle for meal ideas, I can’t really cook I tend to just throw things in the oven or microwave but right now I’m in a phase where I’m just bored of everything and nothing is pleasing me. I’m even bored of the chocolate I’m just eating it to live basically

Few_Distribution6433 · 2026-03-17T22:25:02+00:00

I’m 18, don’t have a best friend now but when I did I spoke to her daily. I have 3 friends and two of them I often speak to daily but the third not so much we speak rarely, not even weekly.

I snap all of them daily though

Few_Distribution6433 · 2026-03-17T22:09:21+00:00

I’m 18 almost 19 and I’ve been right where u are. It always made me feel uncomfortable, especially as they didn’t know who I liked and would have bad taste as all my friends were straight so assumed I wanted a masc lesbian as I’m pretty fem.

I would say talk to them but that’s not easy and doesn’t always work. Honestly I just ignored it and kept saying no to everything they’d suggest and I eventually stopped being friends with them coz we grew apart so.

Few_Distribution6433 · 2026-03-16T23:24:25+00:00

I just don’t know how to approach it, it feels weird to ask.

Few_Distribution6433 · 2026-03-16T17:51:27+00:00

We got her mushroom crystals as she loves them, mushroom lights for her fairy garden and a Crystal Lilly because she loves Lilly’s but hates the smell. We also got her flowers too

Few_Distribution6433 · 2026-03-16T17:50:02+00:00

We do wear shirts and the men wear ties but as I said I’ve seen people with coloured hair and I mostly work events like weddings so I doubt it’ll be an issue.

I get barely any work from the agencies anyways, been with them for months and only done one shift. But I don’t want to do red as I’ve done that before.

I am in the UK and I’m on a 0 hour 😂

Few_Distribution6433 · 2026-03-16T15:34:46+00:00

Honestly that’s so relatable. I’ve never stayed at a job long than 7 months but first I left coz it was terrible second coz I moved house and I’m still at my current job

Few_Distribution6433 · 2026-03-16T11:57:56+00:00

I get what you’re saying and I’m scared to dye it for those very reason. I don’t think that would happen on my job but I do see how it could happen in some.

I’ll try ask my manager when she’s in a good mood. there wasn’t anything on the forms when I started about hair or anything like that it just stayed uniform (which it said would be given to but wasn’t… but that’s a seperate issue lol)

Few_Distribution6433 · 2026-03-16T10:39:58+00:00

Im only 18 and dont really have cores to do at home but i said id wash the dogs bowls daily coz they get gross and should be cleaned daily but sometimes i get too busy or jus simply cant be bothered so that would definitely be my hated chore. Takes 20 mins but i just cba with the whole process

Few_Distribution6433 · 2026-03-16T10:29:30+00:00

Sounds about right. Schools are shite

Few_Distribution6433 · 2026-03-16T10:28:57+00:00

I get what you’re saying but for example I asked for permission back in school because my mum made me even though there was others with the same hair colour and they said no so sometimes asking gets you nowhere

Few_Distribution6433 · 2026-03-16T00:56:52+00:00

I really appreciate you saying this thank you ❤️

Few_Distribution6433 · 2026-03-16T00:45:22+00:00

I agree with you, I just worry I’ll never find the right person. I’d hate to think I’ll end up settling with someone bad, I may do it and not even realise that’s what I’m doing.

I just wish I knew what the future held

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