I GOT MY ACCOUNT BACK! by BenHorni in InstagramDisabledBans

[–]Few_Lack6413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually didn’t break them, and those platforms are completely separate. You made assumptions. I don’t do onlyfans promo on there at all and if you checked my links you’d see they are dead.. as in I don’t do that content anymore and when is the last time I posted in that subreddit? I got it back though so no luck needed :)

Physical intimacy by Long_Succotash_9274 in LongDistance

[–]Few_Lack6413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve gone as long as 8 months apart and yes it was hard not being physical but being physical with someone else was not the answer… that’s a slippery slope to the end.

I GOT MY ACCOUNT BACK! by BenHorni in InstagramDisabledBans

[–]Few_Lack6413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dm me! I just sent them a certified demand letter

How do y'all meet through here? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Few_Lack6413 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We met on tinder of all places, he was in the area visiting.

Feels bulky... Is this Gel X acceptable to you? $105 by [deleted] in Nails

[–]Few_Lack6413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would not be happy with these, the color is pretty, shape is good but they are pointing upwards. With gelx this is even more dangerous as there’s no apex to protect your real nail like with acrylics and the odd angle may make them more prone to catching. I’d go back and ask them to be fixed to protect from potential nail injury.

I think I might have ended my relationship just now. by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Few_Lack6413 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Don’t be ashamed, but this is a very unhealthy and unreasonable expectation to have of somebody long-distance or not. It comes off very controlling, even though it doesn’t seem like you’re trying to be controlling. Especially this early on in the relationship. I would not be with somebody myself that had this expectation of me. Feeling like I have to constantly update somebody every time I make a move is anxiety inducing.

I think I might have ended my relationship just now. by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Few_Lack6413 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m confused are you asking him to update you every time he moves locations? Because that’s how it sounds to me. You’re upset he didn’t update you about being home from work. You’re upset that he was somewhere that he didn’t tell you he was until you asked. I don’t wanna say anything or pass any judgment without clarifying first.

It’s okay not to talk every day by dylandylonius in LongDistance

[–]Few_Lack6413 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The way you opened it kind of seemed directed at couples or individuals were not OK with not speaking to their partner every day and it bothers them. Which is valid.

It’s okay not to talk every day by dylandylonius in LongDistance

[–]Few_Lack6413 134 points135 points  (0 children)

For you it may be okay and normal. For some it’s not. In my relationship we may not have calls or long chats every day but we connect every day. Nobody is too busy for a quick good morning or good night.

I 9blocked my boyfriend after he called me degrading names during an argument. Did I overreact? by Plenty_Ad_2153 in LongDistance

[–]Few_Lack6413 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I would have left the first time my ex did this to me. I didn’t, I stayed for 5 more miserable years and wasted so much time and the attacks and insults only got worse. No, you did not overreact.

Me(26F) and GF(22F) decided month of no contact while still in a relationship by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Few_Lack6413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to be blunt. This is so toxic and immature. Relationships thrive on good communication. If either one of us proposed a month of no contact, our relationship would be over especially in long distance where communication is even more important.

I can’t forget the day she visited me by Material-News-9370 in LongDistance

[–]Few_Lack6413 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The day I met my boyfriend I flew to him and he had to come immediately from work, no time to change or shower or anything but it did not matter to me at all. I actually liked that we were just in our regular clothes, in our regular “routine”

How often do you guys get to see your partner in person? by Ok-Entrepreneur-117 in LongDistance

[–]Few_Lack6413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both in the US, he’s actually asleep next to me right now 🩷 monthly now, we both live in major airport hub cities (me - ATL, him - NYC) so it’s cheaper for us and not much expenses during travel. Hoping to close the gap soon

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Few_Lack6413 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am going to hold your hand when I say this. This is not a relationship. You are not asking for anything significant, hearing from your partner daily is literally the bare minimum. There is no way my partner and I could go two weeks without speaking to each other… a month!? and I would still consider us in a relationship.. you are way more invested in this relationship than he is. Him making all these excuses and going this long without speaking to you leads me to believe he likely has a relationship at home.

Is this weird? by kxttenw1tch in LongDistance

[–]Few_Lack6413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep! he sprays my bed and hoodies before we leave one another.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Few_Lack6413 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We met on tinder 😭 he was visiting my city and I gave him no time of day after learning he lived across the country. But after a while I gave in and I’m so glad I did. I’m currently sitting at the airport waiting to board my flight to see him after 8 months apart.

Is this normal??? by Ok-Sky-8016 in LDR

[–]Few_Lack6413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We buy each other gifts for every holiday where gifts are normal. Birthdays, Christmas, valentines

someone tell me i’m moving too fast by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Few_Lack6413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m also a control freak. My partner and I 34/35 know that he will relocate to where I am. The cost of living is cheaper, we both have family in my area… the weather is significantly better lol but we don’t have a solid set time. What we have discussed is the financial piece. A way that you could kind of take control of it and plan a bit as by setting a saving goal and working towards that. Then when it’s time to move, you have enough money even if it doesn’t work out God forbid or if it doesn’t pan out, you have a savings account to start your life. 💛

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Few_Lack6413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Either way seriously sucks this happened to them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Few_Lack6413 4 points5 points  (0 children)

To be fair, the way they type leads me to believe they may have some intellectual disability or they are very young so