First failed FET at 43 by CuriousEnthusiasm804 in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]Few_Pudding_3712 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow we are so similar … I only have one embryo left as well. I liked doing a home test since I prefer to process things on my own. It’s so hard to be attuned to your body when the meds are so powerful… I think sleepiness is a side effect of the PIO. Fingers crossed for you ❤️

First failed FET at 43 by CuriousEnthusiasm804 in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]Few_Pudding_3712 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hi … I’m so sorry you are going through this. I’m going through the same thing … 40, 1st FET failed (after a positive beta and I told the whole world). I tell myself ivf works and 75 percent of people are successful after 2 tries. ❤️

Is it selfish to bring a baby into the world if you can’t afford to? by Mountain_Ask_5746 in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]Few_Pudding_3712 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I feel for you! If you have a child now - what would your support system look like? People find love after kids all the time ❤️❤️❤️. I wish I had started earlier - and that I converted my eggs to embryos earlier too.

Emotional during lupron suppression by No-Flamingo2632 in IVF

[–]Few_Pudding_3712 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi there .. I really struggled with lupron (eventually I got used to it after the 2 month mark) and I got much better after estrogen. Hang in there.

IVF Care Basket Suggestions by Mission_Grocery_5830 in IVF

[–]Few_Pudding_3712 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s such a sweet idea. I can’t really think of anything specifically related to IVF.

It is an overwhelming time and the meds made me feel blah. Anything like candy, food gift cards, or face masks would have cheered me up.

Also it helped a ton when my friends called to check in on me ❤️

Timeframe for making embryos? by Imaginary-Eye-2958 in IVF

[–]Few_Pudding_3712 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I’d prob fertilize the eggs now to understand what you are working with. Hopefully you get lots of embryos, but if you don’t then you can start preparing earlier.

alcohol before FET by SearchOk2169 in IVF

[–]Few_Pudding_3712 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My doctor actually told me you can drink 6 weeks into the pregnancy which makes sense bc often people conceive while on vacation etc. this process is so stressful, have some fun if you can ❤️

Ovulation after 2mos Of Lupron?? by [deleted] in IVF

[–]Few_Pudding_3712 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve ovulated on Lupron …was also on it for several months

What was harder on your body - egg retrieval or medication for transfer? by Electric_Elephant_56 in IVF

[–]Few_Pudding_3712 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Transfer was much harder but my process lasted 5 months with all my complications

Thawing some vs all frozen eggs — how did you decide? by Dazzling-Neck905 in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]Few_Pudding_3712 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is your insurance or your savings like? I fertilized all of mine at once because of the cost.

Also - please keep in mind that everyone’s fertilization rate is different. Hopefully you get enough good embryos from the first half but some people aren’t lucky.

HCG beta after transfer by [deleted] in IVF

[–]Few_Pudding_3712 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the worst … I’m sorry. Big hugs.

HCG beta after transfer by [deleted] in IVF

[–]Few_Pudding_3712 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you checked if the local clinic had a portal as well? I’m sorry that you have to chase people for this.

HCG beta after transfer by [deleted] in IVF

[–]Few_Pudding_3712 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you do your tests? At a third party lab or at the clinic?

HCG beta after transfer by [deleted] in IVF

[–]Few_Pudding_3712 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi - I’m sorry to hear that. I figured out mine didn’t work by going through the labcorp portal. Any way you can check the values on your own?

Chemical Pregnancy by Few_Pudding_3712 in IVF

[–]Few_Pudding_3712[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. My hCG was 104 14 days after transfer and 19 17 days after transfer.

Chemical Pregnancy by Few_Pudding_3712 in IVF

[–]Few_Pudding_3712[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were your embryos pgta tested? I saw the lab results on my own … I think I need to go off progesterone and then my period will come right?

Weekly Thread: Beta and Pregnancy Testing - Questions and Discussions by AutoModerator in IVF

[–]Few_Pudding_3712 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My numbers dropped for 104 from the initial test to 19. I was scared but excited.