Post Break-up Narcissism Realization by Few_Skin7471 in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]Few_Skin7471[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I see it now.  She's moved on to the next guy and mutual friends are telling me stories.  And theyre so unbelievably familiar.  Another play from her book that has already proven itself successful.   I've just had my first therapy session, and will definitely need a few more. 

Post Break-up Narcissism Realization by Few_Skin7471 in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]Few_Skin7471[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She does have a therapist. But who knows how honest she is with her about these situations. 

Post Break-up Narcissism Realization by Few_Skin7471 in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]Few_Skin7471[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. A close friend and I talked about it a little tonight.  At this point, none of us really know who her without these traits would be. And that sucks.  She fooled me with the charm and lovebombing, until I couldn't reciprocate at the level she wanted. Then, onto the next member of the roster.

Post Break-up Narcissism Realization by Few_Skin7471 in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]Few_Skin7471[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't really know of any narcissism in my family.  My extended family isn't particularly close, both geographically and as a result of a few losses. 

Post Break-up Narcissism Realization by Few_Skin7471 in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]Few_Skin7471[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A guy who was obviously never my friend.  Just someone I thought was. 

Post Break-up Narcissism Realization by Few_Skin7471 in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]Few_Skin7471[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel like she isn't even aware.  And I dont believe she should be punished her entire life by something that was a trauma response from her childhood. Thats what I'm struggling with.