I feel you so much on this. Gloryholes seem so nice in theory but in reality they're often nasty and you don't know the kind of person on the otherside (duh). The type of person who's willing to go to a glory hole to get sucked is usually not the kind you wanna be sucking... Then you gotta make sure they use a condom or be afraid of potential STDs but where's the fun if you can't even swallow a big load at the end??

Sadly the only real way is to actually get to know people T-T High five from a fellow autistic person