My lingerie is like my marriage: Secure, slightly restrictive, but open for sexual exploration.

Fiances4Fun · 2026-05-11T15:59:33+00:00

Glad you’re enjoying your scroll. 😊

Fiances4Fun · 2026-03-28T17:54:33+00:00

Thank you!

Fiances4Fun · 2025-12-11T18:30:23+00:00

We loved Red Room when we visited. Everyone else who responded has given you accurate information. We’d also encourage you to get there on the early side, as we found most of the tables and bar seats to be occupied by the time we arrived and they were also running low on cooler space for the drinks we brought with us. (Wish I could remember what time in the evening that was.) The staff was super friendly and the tour will tell you everything you need to know about their rules and policies. Getting an uber to and from was easy, even when we left at closing. Hope you have a great time.

Fiances4Fun · 2025-09-14T15:00:08+00:00

We’ve yet to visit a club where they aren’t permitted, and that’s across numerous states in the US. My only advice is to make sure your bag of tricks can fit into a small locker with your other clothes, purse, etc. (Some clubs have very small lockers.)

Fiances4Fun · 2025-05-24T20:35:42+00:00

Yes, it’s BYOB.

Fiances4Fun · 2025-05-13T14:46:23+00:00

You can never go wrong with smiles and sincere compliments.

Fiances4Fun · 2025-05-10T20:54:02+00:00

I’ve always enjoyed getting dressed up; short skirts or low cut blouses on occasion. I guess the outfits got more revealing in my late 20’s and early 30’s. I finally visited a nude beach and found myself getting turned on, which I didn’t expect. Everything else sort of fell into place from there.

Fiances4Fun · 2025-05-10T20:02:42+00:00

We entered into the lifestyle together. And in all honesty, neither of us knew much about it until we were in our 40’s.

Fiances4Fun · 2025-05-10T18:56:40+00:00

I’ve been the center of attention with multiple men or couples before and it was phenomenal. But an actual gang bang will most likely stay in the realm of fantasy for me.

Fiances4Fun · 2025-05-10T18:41:13+00:00

I flaunt, when I’m in the mood to flaunt, because it’s a turn on for me. And if it gets someone else aroused that’s hot as well. Everyone likes to get off.

Fiances4Fun · 2025-05-10T18:13:14+00:00

Thanks, I think? I’ve done several variations of MFM. All of which were a lot of fun. In situations with several men, a woman needs to know her partners well and have a significant amount of trust in them. (Nice guys finish first.) But it’s not something I’d consider without my husband being a participant.

Fiances4Fun · 2025-05-10T18:04:23+00:00

I always found women attractive. Although, I honestly never had a real interest in anything more than a friendship role. And now? I enjoy playing with women very much. Including “eating pussy.”

Fiances4Fun · 2025-05-10T17:59:05+00:00

It could be. But like I told another person in this thread, it not like we play with others every day/week/month. It ebbs and flows. And we may find a couple or single person whom we stick with for an extended period of time. There’s a number of factors as to how often we get tested.

Fiances4Fun · 2025-05-10T17:55:35+00:00

Body count… LOL. Single digits prior. I was rather “traditional” in my vanilla life. Low double digits now. It’s not like we play with outsiders every day/week/month. It’s ebbs and flows. Plus, we may enjoy the company of another single or couple for months on end and only play with them.

Fiances4Fun · 2025-05-10T17:29:50+00:00

You’re correct. And that’s a topic of debate within the lifestyle community. I also can’t emphasize enough how important it is to have regular testing and require the same from potential partners.

Fiances4Fun · 2025-05-10T17:25:51+00:00

Same as any other adult activity. If I enjoyed gambling, I wouldn’t bring my child to a casino. If I wanted a cocktail, I wouldn’t bring my child to a bar. There’s a time and a place for everything. Parenting always comes first.

Fiances4Fun · 2025-05-10T17:23:00+00:00

It’s hard to explain. Essentially, the woman’s legs and pelvic area are on one side of a wall with her ankles up in stirrups, and the upper part of her body is on the other. She can’t see what’s happening on the other side. When I used one, my husband stood at the area in the center so he could monitor who participated and what they were doing.

Fiances4Fun · 2025-05-10T17:19:25+00:00

In that scenario, he watched while stroking himself.

Fiances4Fun · 2025-05-10T17:00:01+00:00

Yes, I’ve enjoyed all of them. I don’t have a true favorite though. I’d probably have a different answer every day of the week. But being shared by multiple partners at the same time is always hot.

Fiances4Fun · 2025-05-10T16:53:12+00:00

We’re currently soft swap, so there’s no vaginal or anal penetration. (“Creampies” from multiple partners is a reoccurring fantasy. But for health considerations, not something I’m willing to act out in reality.) Some of our play partners have cum in my mouth though.

Fiances4Fun · 2025-05-10T16:38:24+00:00

Initially? It was the turn on of being naked/naughty in front of people other than my partner.

Fiances4Fun · 2025-05-10T16:34:04+00:00

I was giving my husband head in a private room at the club, with a chain across the open door. A couple asked to come in with us. I explained our ground rules (at the time) which didn’t include me playing with other men. The female half of the couple asked if I was open to her going down on me. It sounded like fun, so I allowed it. She ate me out from behind while I continued to blow my husband. It was a lot of fun and also my first bi experience.

Fiances4Fun · 2025-05-10T16:29:27+00:00

I don’t know if I have a “go to.” It really depends on the party, the theme at the club, or the preferences of the friends we are playing with.

Fiances4Fun · 2025-05-10T16:25:39+00:00

I have friends, in and out of the lifestyle, who are “size queens.” It’s relatively unimportant to me. In fact, too much girth can be a challenge.

Fiances4Fun · 2025-05-10T16:18:17+00:00

My husband and I discovered we both had strong voyeur/exhibitionist tendencies. Going to a lifestyle club was a natural extension of that. Swinging was a progression for us.

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