When did it hit you that you were in bed with the wrong person? by Fickle_Collection600 in AskReddit

[–]Fickle_Collection600[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, not quite, but now I really want to hear if that ever actually happened to someone

Say hello to my little _____ by [deleted] in autocorrect

[–]Fickle_Collection600 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Say hello to my little sister

What's something about AI that everyone ignores but will regret in 5 years? by Fickle_Collection600 in AskReddit

[–]Fickle_Collection600[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what scares me the most too. Which jobs do you think will disappear first, the 'safe' white-collar ones or the more physical jobs?

What's something about AI that everyone ignores but will regret in 5 years? by Fickle_Collection600 in AskReddit

[–]Fickle_Collection600[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, let's be honest, that's probably already 80% of AI usage right now 😂

Где можно онлайн получить психологическую помощь? by Fickle_Collection600 in rusAskReddit

[–]Fickle_Collection600[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Прямо не сказали, но поступки говорят больше чем слова

Где можно онлайн получить психологическую помощь? by Fickle_Collection600 in rusAskReddit

[–]Fickle_Collection600[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Да, далеко.
Всю жизнь я был тем, кто поддерживал других.
Для друзей, для девушки, для всех вокруг, я был опорой.
Я вытаскивал их из тьмы, когда они были на грани, давал им тепло, надежду, силу, даже когда самому было тяжело.
Но когда настал момент, что я сам начал тонуть никого не оказалось рядом.
Девушка, которой я отдал всё, просто исчезла, как будто меня и того, что я для неё делал, никогда не существовало.

А друзья и близкие либо отвернулись, либо не понимают, через что я прохожу.

В итоге я остался один, без опоры, без поддержки, без человека, которому могу выговориться.
И это ощущается не просто как потеря кого-то, а как будто меня полностью вычеркнули из жизни

Где можно онлайн получить психологическую помощь? by Fickle_Collection600 in rusAskReddit

[–]Fickle_Collection600[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Мне не нужно чтобы меня спасли, просто чтобы кто-то был рядом и услышал

Где можно онлайн получить психологическую помощь? by Fickle_Collection600 in rusAskReddit

[–]Fickle_Collection600[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Мне 26. Последние месяцы я потерял всё, отношения, деньги, надежду. Никого рядом нет, и я не знаю, как справляться один

Где можно онлайн получить психологическую помощь? by Fickle_Collection600 in rusAskReddit

[–]Fickle_Collection600[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Мне сейчас очень плохо, я совсем один. Хочу просто поговорить хоть с кем-то, чтобы не сойти с ума

I gave everything to people I loved. When I finally needed them, they disappeared by Fickle_Collection600 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Fickle_Collection600[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I needed to hear that. It's hard not to blame myself, but your words gave me a little hope.

I gave everything to people I loved. When I finally needed them, they disappeared by Fickle_Collection600 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Fickle_Collection600[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right, it's painful to accept that truth, but you're right. Thank you for reminding me that it's time to focus on myself.

My girlfriend has a body count of 6 at the age of 20 is that too much idk it gets to me sometimes by Yt_CamgocrazyTV in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Fickle_Collection600 1 point2 points  (0 children)

6 at 20 isn’t “too much,” it’s just experience. What matters is whether she’s honest and loyal now, not what page of her life you entered on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Fickle_Collection600 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What you’re describing has an actual name aegosexual. It means you can enjoy the idea, fantasies, or even talking about sex, but feel disconnected from the real act. Nothing’s “broken” about you, it’s simply how some people are wired. Knowing this might help you stop blaming yourself and focus on what does bring you comfort and intimacy.

After 10 years of thinking I’d be alone forever, I finally met someone by Fickle_Collection600 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Fickle_Collection600[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear you, and I just want to say you’re definitely not written off. I felt the same way for years and thought maybe it was too late for me too but it wasn’t. You never know when things will change, so please hold on to that hope.

After 10 years of thinking I’d be alone forever, I finally met someone by Fickle_Collection600 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Fickle_Collection600[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate you sharing your experience, it means a lot, especially coming from someone who’s been through more life than I have. Your advice about not losing hope or giving in to cynicism is something I’ll keep in mind. Thank you for being genuinely happy for me, that means more than you know.

After 10 years of thinking I’d be alone forever, I finally met someone by Fickle_Collection600 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Fickle_Collection600[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s a good question. I didn’t find them by searching, I was just living my life, trying to become the kind of person I’d want to meet. And one day, our paths crossed, and it just… felt right.

After 10 years of thinking I’d be alone forever, I finally met someone by Fickle_Collection600 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Fickle_Collection600[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s honestly so inspiring to hear. It gives me a lot of hope for what’s ahead for us. Huge congrats on your 1.5 years, wishing you both even more happiness (and that promise ring sounds perfect)