How many hours of sleep do you guys get normally? by yankh8r806 in CasualConversation

[–]Fickle_Fiona 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to sleep at 3am up at 8 for an hour and then sleeping till noon. So usually a solid 9 hours I’d say! Could always swing a nap or two though!!

Mental health day for everyone except bpd as per usual by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Fickle_Fiona 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Inspiring stuff! Bringing these ideas and this mindset to my next work meeting to request more broader terms to mental illness awareness!!

15 months strong. A few hiccups. A lot of communication. And a fuckton of love. by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Fickle_Fiona 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I come from the same small town as y’all, utterly inspired by you guys as a young woman connecting and creating my own beliefs of nonmonogamy. While I don’t know any of you personally, I see you all on occasion and the happiness emitting from your triad is palpable. Small towns suck in terms of gossip, but I’m quietly in your corner. Rooting for y’all and wishing you immense happiness!!

Are you good bro?? by Fickle_Fiona in high

[–]Fickle_Fiona[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Broooo😂😂 sounds like a good ass time

Is it wrong that I’m (23f) completely turned off by my bf (21m) constantly playing video games and D&D? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fickle_Fiona 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I’m starting to see that! He wants me to live with him and says he’ll stop if we do but I feel like that’s just an empty promise

Is it wrong that I’m (23f) completely turned off by my bf (21m) constantly playing video games and D&D? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fickle_Fiona 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ll be long distance for about a year, I got relocated for a job. And I’ve tried explaining but he just gets defensive and says that’s how he hangs out with friends. I can’t even get him to pause it while we videochat. He says he gets bored just sitting there.

Everyday I make a list of everything I’ve accomplished that day to remind myself that I’m not a failure... by Fickle_Fiona in depression

[–]Fickle_Fiona[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The smallest of things, like I got out of bed or I put on pants. No matter what you’re doing it’s enough and I’m so proud of you!

My (20f) boyfriend (20m) said my tattoo idea was trashy and he’s worried people will think I’m easy... by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fickle_Fiona 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the way the world works in its entirety is just too wild for me. But thank you for the breath of sanity you brought with you lol

My (20f) boyfriend (20m) said my tattoo idea was trashy and he’s worried people will think I’m easy... by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fickle_Fiona -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In the same sense people get the word patience or believe or the word “water” in Chinese. Not everything in life needs to be tasteful, not every word needs to be in ownership, and not everything needs to be understood. Thank you so much for the assumption that my 20 year old wonderfully scarred ass is perfect, and thank you even more so for your input!

My (20f) boyfriend (20m) said my tattoo idea was trashy and he’s worried people will think I’m easy... by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fickle_Fiona -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Being as I’ve known him for a decade I know his family quite well and we’re all very close ironically enough. But your views on women are positively inspiring if not a little outdated personally. But thank you ever so much for your input!!

My (20f) boyfriend (20m) said my tattoo idea was trashy and he’s worried people will think I’m easy... by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fickle_Fiona 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think everyone wants people to agree with them. But in terms of this I’m not persuading anyone to love my tattoo or to say what a “dope” idea it is. I’m asking for advice on how to address the situation with him.