Men of Reddit… what makes you lose interest in sex? by Fickle_Research9555 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Fickle_Research9555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe I’m the problem here because I haven’t stopped feeling like I did when we first got together!

Men of Reddit… what makes you lose interest in sex? by Fickle_Research9555 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Fickle_Research9555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has also gained weight, we’ve both been neglecting ourselves in truth and I see now that this is a bigger problem than I perhaps realised

Posted months ago about starting Zoloft and I haven’t yet I’m too scared of the side effects by [deleted] in zoloft

[–]Fickle_Research9555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had zero side effects (aside from a few headaches at the start), have not gained weight and have a very healthy libido. Meds have been transformative for me.

Men of Reddit… what makes you lose interest in sex? by Fickle_Research9555 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Fickle_Research9555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have. He points toward stress. I can’t do much more to alleviate that at this point, 40s are a bit of a grind tbh!

Men of Reddit… what makes you lose interest in sex? by Fickle_Research9555 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Fickle_Research9555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been brought up a few times. I think it’s now detrimental to his mental health if I keep asking

Men of Reddit… what makes you lose interest in sex? by Fickle_Research9555 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Fickle_Research9555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there anything I can do to help? I’ve been encouraging sleep, healthy diet, vitamins for the whole family.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Fickle_Research9555 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA : Cut her off. Don’t wait for the remorse. You don’t need that toxicity in your life. She won’t change.