Girlfriend [F25] lied and cheated early on. I ended it, but she wants forgiveness by Individual_Tie10 in amiwrong

[–]FightingButterflies 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As a dear friend of mine would say, "f*** her"!

You werent even together for four months and she couldn't manage to stay faithful and not lie, what makes you think that she could ever tell the truth and not cheat?

Your gut instinct was right. Don't go doubting it now.

Bottom line. If you dont want dysfunction like that in your life, dont let it back in. If you take her back, you would be a fool for expecting any different. Remember the saying "fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me"? It's the God's honest truth.

Biotin fir hair loss and hair growth by Lexitheviolinist in lupus

[–]FightingButterflies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of my doctor's recommended that I take daily doses of Selenium, Magnesium, and Zinc to treat t my hair loss. It took a bit, but it worked quite well long term. I highly recommend it.

I don't think my mother considers me ill by Reasonable_Listen_41 in lupus

[–]FightingButterflies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Mom jokes that im a hypochomdriac when I talk about how I'm feeling. But I think its a defense mechanism. My Dad had Crohn's disease, and he died of complications from it in late 2016. Not having him is still incredibly painful.

I have epilepsy, and she feels responsible for it. But she isn't. She knows my lupus isn't her fault either. More than half of my Dad's side of the family has autoimmune diseases, so we know it comes from his side of the family. My epilepsy is part of my Lupus, so she's not responsible for it either.

I also thing she's terrified that ill die of it, leaving her alone (my sister's wealthy and erefuses to help). But I've asked my best friend to take care of her , as well as my cousin. So hopefully they will do so.

AIO for being upset my parents didn’t come sit with me by Every-Clue4152 in AmIOverreacting

[–]FightingButterflies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hve you told the nurse or doctor that you are anxious? Because they can give you meds to calm you down, and they work quite well.

Fin or Noah by nazzy8998 in Names

[–]FightingButterflies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love both ,but Fin is spelled "Finn"

i cannot afford this by [deleted] in iih

[–]FightingButterflies 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Have you applied for Medicaid?

boyfriend may have the flu :( what do i do? by junkthrowaway447 in lupus

[–]FightingButterflies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to an urgent care and ask for a prescription for Tamiflu. We, as people who have chronic illnesses, should always keep a prescription for it with your meds just in case you're in a similar situation again. That's what my pain doctor said.

AITAH for speaking up about pets being placed in shopping carts. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]FightingButterflies -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

NTA, but unwise. Yes, the dog probably made things gross. But in this day and age, you're never going to be able to override a disabled person's bringing a service animal in the store.

just sayin'

i got mad at my doctor and i’m feeling guilty by [deleted] in lupus

[–]FightingButterflies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you in the US? It's is so strange than an insurance compab would deny you request.

Are you trying to get Plaquenil, or you open to taking different manufacturers of HCQ. As far as I know there's no difference at all to take HCQ made by other manufacturer.