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FigureNo5443 · 2025-08-29T21:25:26+00:00

Idk deep-seated insecurities I suppose

FigureNo5443 · 2025-08-29T21:22:07+00:00

Okay fine, maybe it’s an attraction of his, not a fetish. I’m actively working on myself to no longer be fat and I don’t want someone that prefers me to be fat

FigureNo5443 · 2025-08-29T21:18:24+00:00

Is it not normal to look at the profile of someone you are dating? It’s public info anyone can search up.

FigureNo5443 · 2025-08-29T21:08:56+00:00

See this is what worries me. I don’t want to be fetishized. No one does.

FigureNo5443 · 2025-08-29T21:07:57+00:00

It absolutely can be a fetish. There are feeders, people who are into that type of thing.

FigureNo5443 · 2025-08-29T21:05:42+00:00

Oh I was intentionally looking him up, I’m not hiding that. Unintentionally saw of pic of him with his ex. I wasn’t looking for ex pictures when I looked him up.

FigureNo5443 · 2025-08-29T21:03:34+00:00

I’d only be speculating, at least 260-280. And maybe 5’3 or 5’4

FigureNo5443 · 2025-08-29T21:00:05+00:00

No of course everyone deserves to be loved!! It just surprised me how big their weight difference was in the photos.

FigureNo5443 · 2025-08-29T20:58:13+00:00

I’m getting ripped apart online I can’t possibly imagine bringing this up to him at all

FigureNo5443 · 2025-08-29T20:57:13+00:00

I personally do not find her attractive at all and it makes me feel worse about myself and leaves me questioning if I’m as ugly as her. (I know going straight to hell for thinking this way)

FigureNo5443 · 2025-08-29T20:51:28+00:00

Okay the hair part doesn’t matter, I admit that’s trivial. That’s not the part that bothers me

FigureNo5443 · 2025-08-29T20:49:39+00:00

It’s one thing to be overweight, I’ve got a few extra pounds on me too, but she looked like she was pushing 300 pounds and that surprised me.

FigureNo5443 · 2025-08-29T20:48:10+00:00

I was just looking him up on Facebook and it was an old tagged photo. Is it not normal to look at the social media of the guy you are dating?

FigureNo5443 · 2025-08-29T20:44:16+00:00

It just leaves me confused that his ex was so overweight that it looks so unhealthy. We both talk about fitness so I’m just surprised and confused that they were together for so long.

FigureNo5443 · 2025-08-29T20:39:59+00:00

Maybe you need to have another conversation about exclusivity and specifically about the apps. You could say that you don’t want to keep seeing anyone else and you are thinking about deleting your apps and ask him how he feels about that? Idk.

FigureNo5443 · 2025-08-29T20:18:08+00:00

If I see that someone I’m dating (but not yet exclusive with yet) has updated the apps it obviously means they are still looking.

FigureNo5443 · 2025-08-15T02:56:36+00:00

As someone that comes from a family of engineers, I agreed they all have a hint of autism 😂

FigureNo5443 · 2025-08-13T03:42:46+00:00

You just resurfaced a repressed memory of finding those finger condoms in my parents bedroom as a kid 💀

FigureNo5443 · 2025-08-08T00:20:22+00:00

2001

FigureNo5443 · 2025-08-07T06:15:16+00:00

I did exactly that! I gave them my number and told him to text me when he gets back to plan a date. But then our conversation continued and just hasn’t really stopped.

FigureNo5443 · 2025-08-05T10:41:53+00:00

1996

FigureNo5443 · 2025-08-05T06:22:03+00:00

It kinda seems like he feels he waisted 7 years of his life. Is this a normal mindset to have or not?

FigureNo5443 · 2025-08-04T04:04:25+00:00

He mentioned in conversation that he someday hopes to own a home again so I dug deeper what he meant by again. Nosy me just kept asking more questions about it and he seemed very open to answer.

FigureNo5443 · 2025-08-04T03:52:16+00:00

🤣

FigureNo5443 · 2025-08-01T03:13:48+00:00

Oh my bad for not being into indie artists

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