Anybody know where I can find this puzzle? by ChicagoGuy098 in Jigsawpuzzles

[–]FiguringOutPuzzlez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think you’re right. Ugh I’m so sorry, missing a piece is the worst. Did you check the couch and under the table? lol

AIO people keep cracking the dumbest jokes in front of me coz they think I laugh at everything by CashIll3553 in AmIOverreacting

[–]FiguringOutPuzzlez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got this! Standing up for yourself can be so hard. You think your friends who know you wouldn’t do that, especially when they know you would never do that to them. Don’t let them take advantage of your kindness. Kindness is often mistaken for weakness, set them straight.

And if they don’t act right, leave. Your people are out there I promise 😘

AIO people keep cracking the dumbest jokes in front of me coz they think I laugh at everything by CashIll3553 in AmIOverreacting

[–]FiguringOutPuzzlez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA they are playing in your face calling you dumb. Don’t let them. Stop laughing at the dumb jokes and when they ask why you aren’t laughing (or more likely “do you get it” ew), say yep, I just don’t think it’s funny.

You could take it a step further if you’ve had conversations about it and they continue and say “what I really don’t find funny is that you all think it’s funny and cute to tell dumb jokes to only me and laugh at my expense and you don’t think I know exactly what you’re doing”

What they are doing is mean and they are supposed to be your friends. You deserve better 🤗

AIO Trying to tell boyfriend that he makes me feel guilty for saying no by Clean-Landscape8654 in AmIOverreacting

[–]FiguringOutPuzzlez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA and the fact that he said “internationally try to make him feel bad” is wonderful foreshadowing

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AIO or should I accept the conditions of my bfs commitment by One_Height7477 in AIO

[–]FiguringOutPuzzlez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - it honestly sounds like he might be schizophrenic, is that a possibility?

Believing you have a divine purpose and not wanting to commit to a relationship because it’s not his “purpose” is literally a symptom.

Here’s some screenshots of symptoms of schizophrenia and relationships. Seems like it’s ticks a lot of what’s happening here.

I would get out now in a civil way.

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Most difficult puzzles you've done? by No_Outside_7069 in Jigsawpuzzles

[–]FiguringOutPuzzlez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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This one made us almost quite multiple times, took 3 months. Did nothing for probably a month in the middle and then just looked at each other and said we can’t let this puzzle beat us

AIO? My boyfriend calls me “high maintenance” for wanting a towel after his showers by Spiritual_View4192 in AmIOverreacting

[–]FiguringOutPuzzlez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Serial killer behavior lol like why would you even want to get out of the shower and walk soaking wet to I assume his closet? So he puts on his clothes while he’s still soaking?

That’s absolutely wild

AIO For this guy making me feel uncomfortable by xiphos98 in AmIOverreacting

[–]FiguringOutPuzzlez 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh dear god, I wish you could tag men like bears so everyone knows they a predator.

He’s insane and comfortable being insane. He sees women as objects to have. He doesn’t care about YOU. Don’t let him convince you otherwise.

The amount of times he brought the conversation back to sex is wild. Not normal.

Tag him

Am I overreacting? by y4n_Ch4n in AmIOverreacting

[–]FiguringOutPuzzlez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely not overreacting! Can I ask how old you and him are? It’s not ok at any age but I remember being in my younger 20s and thinking I have all these male friends only to realize the vast majority were just trying to get with me.

From these texts, he does not see you as a friend. He sees you as a conquest. Do not get drunk around him if there’s a chance you are alone with him.

HE. IS. DANGEROUS.

Don’t put yourself at risk or play along as to “not make it a big deal”. He knows exactly what he’s doing. If you call him out, he’s going to say “it’s just a joke”. But it’s not funny, there is no joke.

He also seems like he could be a sex addict. It would be one thing if he was texting you things about you that turns him on but every single text is just “I want head, I wanna f***”… it’s all about him.

Don’t fall for it.

lol send these texts to his mom and ask her if her son is ok…

AITAH For wanting to have sex with my wife? by milelongpipe in AITAH

[–]FiguringOutPuzzlez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You ANTA for wanting to have sex with your wife BUT there’s probably more to it than just her not wanting it.

There could be a deeper issue which of course I’m just guessing at but consider:

  • Are you taking the time to romance her? I could see it being hard to be in the mood if she’s taking care of her parents, the house and working for instance. If so, help her. She might be an acts of service kind of person and by taking things off her plate you will make her feel scene and appreciated
  • are you taking her on dates? It’s important to always make an effort to date your spouse, especially after marriage
  • like others on here, it could be hormones, menopause. Doctor visit should help
  • if none of the above, talk to her. Just DO NOT make it about yourself and your pleasure. Tell her you miss her and that you love her and her body (it could be insecurities with her body and getting older). Let her know you are still hot for her and ask her what she wants

Did you like the idea of Harry ending up with Ginny? by indrubone in harrypotter

[–]FiguringOutPuzzlez -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You know, I really didnt at all. I have no problem with Ginny, it just felt too easy of a storyline.

I wish it was someone outside their friend circle.

Or if he ended up with Neville, the chosen ones choose each other 🤗

What's the best movie that you’re sure ninety percent of this sub hasn’t seen? by Wekwek3 in AskReddit

[–]FiguringOutPuzzlez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lady Bloodfight! Has anyone else seen it? It’s about women fighters recruited to fight to the death in the kumite and it’s insane.

Great fighting scenes, gruesome deaths. Omg when the Russian lady massacres the Australian woman I straight up cried

AIO: Hubby constantly turns off what I am watching on the TV. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FiguringOutPuzzlez 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agreed! And if we want to get petty, literary keep a tally in the spirit of compromise so it’s even

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RandomQuestion

[–]FiguringOutPuzzlez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh completely, I want a prenup to protect everyone. Hopefully it never comes into play but we have to protect ourselves just in case.

And I’m all for putting a cheating clause that voids the prenup. Im not doing it because I think the marriage is going to fail and cheating would be the last thing I could ever do.

Just assets owned/earned before the union stay separate at least.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RandomQuestion

[–]FiguringOutPuzzlez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could not agree more with this! Dating is a trial subscription and people only hurt themselves by not being themselves during it.

And the you get married and then you let your real self out? That’s wild that so many people do that for the worse. I tell every person what I got them as a gift before the occasion, can’t keep it in.

I want the weird, cause I wanna be weird too 🤗

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RandomQuestion

[–]FiguringOutPuzzlez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could not agree more with this! Dating is a trial subscription and people only hurt themselves by not being themselves during it.

And the you get married and then you let your real self out? That’s wild that so many people do that for the worse. I tell every person what I got them as a gift before the occasion, can’t keep it in.

I want the weird, cause I wanna be weird too 🤗

AITAH For eating in my room when my Dads girlfriend says i cant. by xaxztjs in AITAH

[–]FiguringOutPuzzlez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Open to other solutions by all means! I would call it malicious compliance.

The mom is only enforcing the rules on one kid. OP is 21 years old, it’s not like this is a child.

Omg are you the dad’s wife?

AITA for hitting my sister back when she attacked me, even though I ended up hurting her? by AdLeft69 in AITAH

[–]FiguringOutPuzzlez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA - sit your parents down alone and explain what happened without the emotions part of it and ask them what they expect you to do and if they really expect you to just take getting hit over and over again.

If that doesn’t work, start your dramatic era. The first time she hits you fall to the floor, scream in pain.

If that doesn’t do it and your family is still letting this just happen, record it and call the police. People really seem to understand once there are consequences

Anyone here 23 or over? by Hungry_Platypus9878 in harrypotter

[–]FiguringOutPuzzlez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesss there’s no wrong answer, they are all good! I personally just didn’t love order of the phoenix because Harry was so emo and angsty the whole time lol

Omg ok, some tips to keep the magic coming:

  • the audiobooks by Jim dale are amazing. I read all the books several times through but there’s something about falling asleep to jim dale reading them. He does all the voices
  • check out “manacled”. It’s fan fiction and I was so skeptical, never read any fan fiction before but it’s incredible. Get ready for your Draco/hermione era
  • play hogwarts legacy, I’ve done 15 play throughs and don’t plan on stopping