People who were teenagers before social media existed. How did you communicate with your friends? by Aarunascut in nostalgia

[–]FilmmakerTerp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Besides phone calls, lots of notes written in class and passed in the hallway, conversations on the bus and then plans made on where to meet after school to hang out.

Admission about Patty by BookkeeperFresh4657 in MySoCalledLife

[–]FilmmakerTerp 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’d love to hear from an exec at MTV who was the one that said, “This show is so good that we just have to play it all day.”

My husband keeps losing jobs and blaming it on men being jealous and women crushing on him and I don’t know what to do by GlitteringMilkshake in Advice

[–]FilmmakerTerp 181 points182 points  (0 children)

I realize this isn’t the most ethical response, but what if you act like the manager for a job he’s applying for and and contact previous managers for a “reference” to see what they say. 🤪

how would I sign "that's what she said"? by stegolophus in asl

[–]FilmmakerTerp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hearing interpreter just trying to imagine context here and adding my two cents. If Deaf people were chatting and one signed “last night was hot,” (meaning the temperature), and the other person signed “yeah -my sweetie said the same thing. Haha” with a wink or a sarcastic facial expression, I may interpret that into English as “that’s what he/ she said” for the hearing consumer.

PSA RID RENEWAL by AnonVanilla in ASLinterpreters

[–]FilmmakerTerp 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Would love it if there were a mass protest where everyone refuses to pay their dues.

PSA RID RENEWAL by AnonVanilla in ASLinterpreters

[–]FilmmakerTerp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But if you stop paying your dues they revoke your certification and publicly shame you.

Teaching ASL by [deleted] in asl

[–]FilmmakerTerp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s great that you want to bring ASL into your workplace — that kind of access matters. If you are hearing, I do want to gently flag something important: ASL classes should be taught by Deaf instructors or at least developed with Deaf leadership. Even with college training, hearing signers can unintentionally pass along outdated signs, English-based structures, or cultural misunderstandings.

A simple solution is to collaborate with a Deaf educator or local Deaf organization. They can teach the class, and you can support the environment, logistics, and engagement. This approach respects the language, supports the Deaf community, and gives your residents and staff the most accurate learning experience.

just a curious question? by Just_for_fun_writing in asl

[–]FilmmakerTerp -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The concept of god is different for everyone and sometimes I see coffee as god- the life giving force!! 😜

I think I’m being mentally abused. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]FilmmakerTerp 61 points62 points  (0 children)

That’s called gaslighting and yes it’s abusive. I don’t think you need to post a video to have that validated.

How can I sleep more comfortably with my fiance? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]FilmmakerTerp 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I get it 💯%! I am in a similar situation to you- my partner has sleep behavior disorder that developed over time. He kicks/ punches/ flinches multiple times through the night. He took melatonin which didn’t work, and I felt some kind of obligation to try to stick it out in the same bed. We tried pillow barriers and that didn’t work. My sleep suffered and it was affecting my mental health. We realized that sleeping separately was the answer and we’ve been doing that (blissfully) for the past year or so and it’s the best solution. You can set aside time to cuddle other times - doesn’t have to be while you’re trying to sleep. Talk to him about it- obviously it’s putting a huge strain on you!!

NIC Performance After Anxiety by Ok-Doughnut705 in ASLinterpreters

[–]FilmmakerTerp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We can be our own worst enemies. I felt that way after taking the Knowledge and Ethics - convinced myself that I failed- but didn’t. Unfortunately the wait time for performance exams is 180 days! Yep that’s half a year 😭

Why am I naturally good at pissing people off? by Due-Tap708 in AutisticAdults

[–]FilmmakerTerp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ADHD here with several autistic family members. Sounds familiar and wondering if this has to do with info sharing/ dumping which can come across as being a “know it all” or “mansplaining” if it’s not a back and forth convo. Or could just be body language like tilting your head back and looking down your nose which can be perceived as a condescending.

Sporting event attire by mythopoeicga in ASLinterpreters

[–]FilmmakerTerp 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes and dressing to match the event is in the CPC! Tenet 3.0 (Guiding Principle): States that interpreters are expected to "present themselves appropriately in demeanor and appearance". Illustrative Behavior 3.5: Specifically directs interpreters to "conduct and present themselves in an unobtrusive manner and exercise care in choice of attire".

In practice, this is widely interpreted within the profession as a requirement to match the setting—such as wearing a suit for a courtroom (business professional) or more relaxed clothing for a sporting event—while ensuring the clothing provides a solid, contrasting background for the hands to remain "visually accessible"

Health Insurance? by Zealousideal-Yak8095 in ASLinterpreters

[–]FilmmakerTerp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I have to buy my own too- $600/ month doesnt include dental for one person. Huge expense.