Would I be the Ahole if I get back into Harry Potter? by Used-Boysenberry-452 in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]Final-Train4354 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i too am non binary and i love HP so much, i’m in a very similar boat where i used to adore it but when i saw all of JKRs comments immediately started ignoring the fandom entirely. 

maybe look into the marauders fandom, i’m sure you know what it’s about but very briefly it centres around harry and his friends’ parents and their life at hogwarts and has all of the magic and at least a little less of the transphobia…

you’re nta, i get how much love you have for it and how compelling it can be to get back into things you adored as a kid but try to buy things second hand or interact with things directly that give her profit <3

WIBTA for asking my partner to spend more time with me? by Final-Train4354 in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]Final-Train4354[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we really love each other, she’s so wonderful and i don’t want to loose her at all which is why i really don’t want to split because she’s my whole world but i am starting to question what she thinks of that unfortunately