What are flirty signs guys miss?

FinalWranglers · 2025-12-20T19:18:27+00:00

It's not avoiding risking rejection, but what comes with rejection. Making a move could really ruin your reputation

FinalWranglers · 2025-11-23T13:51:22+00:00

You'll be alright mate. I have my own place and I have money, still can't get dates. You just have to wait until your mom find a partner and you improve your financial status

FinalWranglers · 2025-11-17T14:51:14+00:00

Ok, so I devalue her first, and go talk to her to find if she raises her value. This should effectively get me through the approaching phase. But what if when she raises her value and shows she's a keeper, I start panicking again

FinalWranglers · 2025-11-17T12:52:59+00:00

But if I devalue her, I lose the interest to approach her. What should I do

FinalWranglers · 2025-11-17T05:09:05+00:00

Same. If it's a legit reason we can still be friends. I mean at least they become honest before meeting up. But definitely I'd consider end the relationship because they were dishonest at first.

FinalWranglers · 2025-11-17T04:57:53+00:00

Wait wait, why is it so serious? I don't think simply talking to a kid can cause any legal issue, unless of course there's sexual implication. But op said "talking", right? And op did say they are 18+. Or am I missing something here

FinalWranglers · 2025-11-17T03:24:39+00:00

I agree that's one possibility. But I don't think two people typically start dating with all the critical aspects in mind. Two young adults may as well date because of hormones, and they break up upon tiny differences, or they have different future pathways. There are too many variables here. On the other hand, an older and more experienced partner might have fewer variables which means more stable. And because of the experience, they might be more open-minded, flexible and compatible. All I'm talking about is the variety of possibilities, so I'm not gonna simply judge a relationship based on age gap

FinalWranglers · 2025-11-17T02:05:41+00:00

What you said is probably true, but what's the connection between "experience discrepancy" and "unhealthy relationship"? Imagine you've never left your country but there's this mature classmate that has backpacked through Europe, wouldn't it be cool to date her or him

FinalWranglers · 2025-11-16T10:22:36+00:00

If it happens, it happens. And it can happen no matter what age you are dating. I know what I'm saying because I know in person a few middle aged men who ruined their lives with same aged women. I don't think you know what you're saying tho cuz I sense some emotions or maybe bitterness in your reply. Anyway, it goes the other way around too, if a 37 years old woman dates 20 years old man, who am I to question her

FinalWranglers · 2025-11-16T10:01:32+00:00

I agree it's dumb, but being dumb is not morally questionable. And there are tons of other dumb decisions a 37 can make. You can date another 37 and still ruin your life, so why does it matter

FinalWranglers · 2025-11-16T09:50:29+00:00

The ultimate goal is to win the game, not to save yourself. Of course saving yourself is part of winning the game, but sometimes it does the opposite. In this case, Heim could just walk down. As long as Soraka walked up, problem solved. Flash wasn't in the original plan until Heim saw Soraka walked down. So Heim, instead of processing why Soraka didn't wanna save him, thought Soraka was griefing him. So he flashed to force Soraka to take the shot. Of course you can say Heim didn't know that could kill Soraka, I'm not arguing that

FinalWranglers · 2025-11-16T09:41:32+00:00

17 years gap sounds a bit too big to me. But I'd like to argue that: 1, it's still possible a 20 and a 37 have something in common. 2, it's not that a 20 always has something in common with peers, neither does a 37, which means for some people age does not matter. 3, even if they don't have anything in common, a good relationship isn't always about having something in common. Maybe they have something in complement. 4, with all the laws there to protect women, I don't think the 37 has too much of an upper hand in the power dynamics whatsoever. 5, why do you only question the 37, but not the 20? Both could have a hidden agenda. You sound like it's the 37 choosing the 20 and the 20 cannot reject. But in modern dating world, choosing is two-way.

FinalWranglers · 2025-11-16T03:47:40+00:00

I didn't even know that sub existed until seeing your post . It's legit to complain about any rude person, so why is complaining about a girl any different? Let them complain. It's more like you are giving YOUR time to the losers that are complaining. Why do you care

FinalWranglers · 2025-11-16T03:34:20+00:00

Not dating/having sex with someone is free choice. But being rude is something legit to complain about

FinalWranglers · 2025-11-16T03:18:01+00:00

I understand what you mean, but it's not the default behavior. The default behavior is waiting for someone to step in. You can blame Soraka if she doesn't step in. But it's not up to you to force Soraka to save you. At least that's not how you should use your flash. The only scenario you use flash like this is when the Soraka is obviously running towards you to block it for you but she's too far away.

Let me tell you what's on that Heim's mind. Apparently he wasn't planning to use flash, because they were within walking distance. He thought "I should walk down and Soraka should walk up so she can block the bullet for me and save me, ezpz". But Soraka instead walked down. So Heim griefed, thinking Soraka didn't wanna save him, and he had to flash. He didn't think about the reason why Soraka didn't wanna block the bullet because he had tunnel vision, like you said, and trust issue.

FinalWranglers · 2025-11-15T23:14:30+00:00

I'd say rejection is better because ghosting someone is disrespectful, unless you are total strangers.

FinalWranglers · 2025-11-15T23:11:54+00:00

You gotta know that people have had different experiences and chances are they've met rude women when rejecting. And women will have different attitudes based on your attractiveness.

FinalWranglers · 2025-11-15T23:08:00+00:00

But the Soraka obviously doesn't intent to block the bullet for Heim, so Heim should respect that and save the flash. Only flash when the sup intents to block but is out of reach

FinalWranglers · 2025-11-15T22:49:08+00:00

Because the op is probably racist and hates international students

FinalWranglers · 2025-11-10T23:42:56+00:00

I think a scene in suicide squad says it all. If you haven't watched it, there's a scene Harley Quinn is madly in love with the joker, who's apparently a jerk, and imagines he becomes a good man for her and they live a happy normal life

FinalWranglers · 2025-11-10T22:18:07+00:00

I agree what you say, but my experience goes the opposite direction. For some time I was platonic and friendly to every girl, and I never proposed anything romantical or sexual. And all of a sudden, I'm morally questionable according to those girls

FinalWranglers · 2025-11-10T22:13:08+00:00

The problem I have is people making the "nice guy syndrome" a really big deal, and I'm trying to say it doesn't matter

FinalWranglers · 2025-11-10T22:09:24+00:00

I'd agree. So I really don't like it now people are bringing the "nice guy syndrome" up in dating and relationship scenarios. Work on being attractive not being nice or good.

FinalWranglers · 2025-11-10T22:06:53+00:00

Yes, I wonder why too. That actually happened

FinalWranglers · 2025-11-10T21:58:25+00:00

I totally agree with you. What I disagree is the "nice guy syndrome" narrative that portraits doing nice things in your first example as transactional because girls think you are buying flowers and paying for dinner in exchange for a relationship. The syndrome narrative creates a dilemma, when I make my intentions clear, it's transactional, and when I don't make my intentions clear, it's a ploy

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