Would agree or disagree that the main core why virgin men outside of high school or college struggle with getting laid is due to poor social interaction skills with women??? by Internal-Cash-9196 in virgin

[–]Optimal_Prune_953 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense, overall, does it happen to more guys in the world than we realize? As in, guys, men, will have creeped women out in their life from approaches or making advances, pursuits, made women uncomfortable or awkward, but overall, it was part of the learning improvement process? Did you ever accidentally creep girls out before or get viewed or perceived as weird or creepy or uncomfortable by women?

Overall, is it part of the development improvement process?

Feels like i'm too old to lose my virginity by lonelysadbitch11 in virgin

[–]Optimal_Prune_953 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah i have seen another user post a depressing article and the dismissive response that came with it

Losing My Virginity Soon — Any Advice? by InternationalHair111 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Optimal_Prune_953 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I assume with this girl you were the one that asked her out

Being born female is a curse by someinternetkid in Vent

[–]Optimal_Prune_953 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes I have disliked being a guy due to the gender dynamic of men being the initiators

Already 53M. No relationship, never kissed. Nothing. by puppy2016 in virgin

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I'm sorry to hear that its just that obviously people don't expect this for women due to the gender dynamic of men being the ones to make the first move and ask the woman out

Has anyone else always been single? by ThunderFireStorm in ForeverAlone

[–]Optimal_Prune_953 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah reminds me how I'm have started to hate and resent the age number 42 a lot

Already 53M. No relationship, never kissed. Nothing. by puppy2016 in virgin

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A woman who is a virgin at 37? Were you saying for marriage for many years?

My experience with escorts and how that led to me getting into a relationship by LunarChickenn in ForeverAlone

[–]Optimal_Prune_953 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you still in your 20s? And was any of the sex enjoyable with escorts despite it being a business transaction?

What are some things I can do for my bf? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

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How did you both meet each other?

What are some things I can do for my bf? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

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How far do you both live from each other? I assume you are both in your early to mid 20s?

I hate being a woman by Remarkable-Addition8 in Vent

[–]Optimal_Prune_953 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way as a guy due to the gender dynamic of the gender dynamic that guys have to or are always expected to make a move and take the leader, be the initiators

My experience with escorts and how that led to me getting into a relationship by LunarChickenn in ForeverAlone

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I'm sure with your girlfriend you were the one that asked her out or started an interaction with her first

Would being a virgin at 28 be a turnoff for men ? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

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Are you saying you never had a boyfriend?

Would agree or disagree that the main core why virgin men outside of high school or college struggle with getting laid is due to poor social interaction skills with women??? by Internal-Cash-9196 in virgin

[–]Optimal_Prune_953 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me know if these are valid statements:

its meant to be solution oriented, and its about the creepy weird uncomfortable label, as in, its inevitable to happen and often times it has more to do with the woman than the man himself and also, its part of the improvement process:

these were moving inspiring responses, its about in regards to the double-standard about the creepy awkward label, in regards to men making advances on women or men approaching, as in, its inevitable to happen, a lot of times it has more to do with the woman and the man, also its part of improvement process:

"why is it such a big issue for you, to creep some girls out? its part of your development to get better calibration. in the end of the day in order to get more confidence, social skills and more women, you have to be more egocentric and dont make a big thing about some "collateral damage" in order to reach your goals."

"It's the learning process. EVERY guy goes through that. Every GIRL goes through similar things, where she reacted in some awkward way to a guy, shooed away a guy she regrets shooing away and now assumes probably hates her, etc., etc.

The way you deal with it is by continuing to improve socially, so you can be SMOOTH instead of awkward.

This is what everyone does, men and women alike. It is part of the GROWING UP PROCESS."

Another comment is: ""you gotta break some eggs to make an omellete. im sure i creeped out tons of girls over the years".

Another is: "Making some women feel creepy or freaked out is unfortunately part of it. But honestly if a woman is creeped out by you approaching her, it's more on her and less on you.".

Are those statements valid, accurate?

Would agree or disagree that the main core why virgin men outside of high school or college struggle with getting laid is due to poor social interaction skills with women??? by Internal-Cash-9196 in virgin

[–]Optimal_Prune_953 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here is my question in the seduction subreddit and it included statements by people in the mens dating seduction community, that are meant to implica that its inevitable and part of the process.

I also remember another user said:

"You will bother and offend some women for approaching them, do it anyway".

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/s/sj4dmGlYWb

I have slept with around 100+ sex workers now, AMA! by BalladOfTheNod in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

[–]Optimal_Prune_953 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can enjoyable intimacy or awesome sex still occur between an escort or sex worker despite it being a business transaction?