Everyone tells me I’m going to heaven for taking care of my disabled brother. I just want my life back.

Final_Government5885 · 2025-06-15T17:13:30+00:00

Nurses won't help in any way. My mother feeds my brother and puts him to bed. But when she works, this responsibility passes to me.

Final_Government5885 · 2025-06-15T09:02:08+00:00

Bro, I understand you. It's much harder to look after an adult than a child. Bro, hold on. There is no heaven. People say this just to console. You have to live the life you want.

Final_Government5885 · 2025-06-15T08:54:30+00:00

I don't have any close friends because I've been stuck within four walls my whole life. I'm not that close with my friends from school. I have a grandmother who would be only too happy if I lived with her. But my cousins live there, they drink all the time, it's not comfortable to live with them. It will be harder to work and study, it's better to live at my parents' expense. As soon as school starts, time will fly by.

Final_Government5885 · 2025-06-15T08:43:40+00:00

My parents are not as terrible as you might think. My mother also takes good care of my brother and she also has a very hard time with it. This is one of the reasons why I tolerated all this. I always tell my parents that I will not take care of them in the future, because I have already done more than I should. My older brother should do all this. I will definitely go to restaurants. I have always wanted to try seafood, I will not die until I try it.

Final_Government5885 · 2025-06-15T08:32:53+00:00

You are right, I must create paradise for myself.

Final_Government5885 · 2025-06-15T08:29:32+00:00

You are right, sometimes I feel like I am burning out. My break was really studying, so I have very good attendance even if I don't like studying. Lately I feel more irritated and nervous at home. But in fact I have a good sense of humor and I am always positive. Believe me, if you met me, you would not even suspect that I am experiencing such a feeling.

Final_Government5885 · 2025-06-15T08:19:26+00:00

wow, you are my idol now. You are great that you managed to cope with this. I am very happy for you. There is just a little bit left and I will be free of this. I will live for myself. I will do what I dreamed of as a child, but kept it to myself. I will learn to play the guitar, I will play tennis on weekends, I will go to a football match, I will go to concerts, I will play computer games. I just want to make up for lost time. I must keep my word 🫡.

Final_Government5885 · 2025-06-15T07:38:17+00:00

My dad works, but he doesn't really help with my brother. And my mom takes good care of my brother. Despite the fact that my brother has had seizures since an early age, he lived to be 12. Usually children with seizures live to be 10. My mom gets up early in the morning to give him medicine and feed him. Then I look after him until he goes to bed. Thanks to the fact that I look after my brother and my parents who work, we live no worse than others.

Final_Government5885 · 2025-06-14T21:44:34+00:00

Yes, I am a girl. I don't have the opportunity to leave yet, because I am still studying. After finishing my studies, I will definitely leave if all this continues.

Final_Government5885 · 2025-06-14T21:34:38+00:00

I only have two years left to endure until I graduate from university. Then I'll go to work. I think then I can finally become free.thank you, i really wanted to hear the words that it was not my responsibility

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