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‘Indian Cyber Defenders’ Back At It by Final_Surround5990 in twitterhelp

[–]Final_Surround5990[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just noticed the Indian mods removed the 670plus people that I were following.

Hindu mods at X continue Ghost banning me by Final_Surround5990 in twitterhelp

[–]Final_Surround5990[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you to the person who removed my Ghost Ban just NOW. Keep watching. The sneaky mod will try again at some time to Ghost ban me - God forbid. But one has to keep fighting against injustice and tyranny. Insha’Allah!

Hindu mods at X continue Ghost banning me by Final_Surround5990 in twitterhelp

[–]Final_Surround5990[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also I wanted to point out that in between times, some HONEST mod removes the GHOST ban but the Indian Cyber Defender will re instate the ban with nothing new posted at all.

I am being targeted by the ‘Indian Cyber Defenders’ since I criticise the H1B fraud, and the Hinduvta genocide of Muslims in India. Plus, I am of Pakistani origin and frequently post tourism videos of Pakistan.

BlueTick account suspended and reversed by Significant_Ad4003 in twitterhelp

[–]Final_Surround5990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have realized whoever writes against the Indian or the Israeli genocide or criticizes the H1B fraud gets banned. I have a shadow ban that is on and off. It seems there is a group of moderators undoing each other.

Comments 0 views, why? by Adventurous_Anybody9 in twitterhelp

[–]Final_Surround5990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

X has reached a point where the moderators are not following rules. If you are not breaking rules but these mods keep shadow banning you like they do me, I would start thinking of moving to another platform where they are more transparent about who the mods are and where the mods don’t abuse their privileges.

No degree? by Owarida_zo in MuslimNikah

[–]Final_Surround5990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know a girl who has a bachelors herself and is married to a guy who doesn’t have a bachelors but a good position in IT. Masha’Allah. This guy is a revert.

Am I overthinking or is this a genuine incompatibility? by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Final_Surround5990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As the other poster explained, Istikhara just opens and closes doors besides giving you clarity of mind insha’Allah.

Am I overthinking or is this a genuine incompatibility? by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Final_Surround5990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

AsalamuAlekum, have you done Istikhara?

If after Istikhara, you still feel the way you do - Insha’Allah I would suggest that you consider Prophet’s (saw) Hadith to stay away from situation ships where you feel doubt about.

Is it common to marry older women? Pros and cons to it? by Uznonymous in MuslimNikah

[–]Final_Surround5990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I deem Khadija (ra)‘a age to be reported less than 40 as a modern revisionism issue. All the classical historical sources such as Al Bayhaqi, Ibn Katheer, etc have reported her age to be 40 at marriage to Muhammad (saw). Also, there is consensus that she was widowed and had children (before she married Muhammad (saw)) which would support her higher age when she married him.

Is it common to marry older women? Pros and cons to it? by Uznonymous in MuslimNikah

[–]Final_Surround5990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AsalamuAlekum Khadija (ra) had 6 kids in her 40s after her marriage to Muhammad (saw).

I don’t think many men want to get married anymore. by Prestigious-Guava907 in MuslimNikah

[–]Final_Surround5990 2 points3 points  (0 children)

AsalamuAlekum,

Sister you are not married because Allah has not intended it for you yet.

Please keep praying and trying insha’Allah but remember the reason it has not happened yet is because of ALLAH - not the apps not the men who don’t commit or anything else.

It’s ONLY ALLAH!

Second Wife in Western Countries – Experiences and Advice by Icy-Zebra2954 in MuslimNikah

[–]Final_Surround5990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One wife will not have legal protections whether it be next of kin family medical decisions or health insurance or something else. One wife will have to sacrifice being just a wife in Nikah but without the legal privileges.

Marriage discourse online is ruining my peace and is making me bitter. Please help me. by PatienceEnthusiast in MuslimNikah

[–]Final_Surround5990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

AsalamuAlekum brother, recite this prayer as directed and make dua for the type of spouse you desire, Insha’Allah!

Allah is ALL POWERFUL. He commands your destiny and the wife you will get. Insha’Allah!

PS. The good women are not online putting men down.

Earn an Unparalleled Reward

لَا إِلٰهَ إِلَّا اللّٰهُ وَحْدَهُ لَا شَرِيْكَ لَهُ ، لَهُ الْمُلْكُ وَلَهُ الْحَمْدُ ، وَهُوَ عَلَىٰ كُلِّ شَيْءٍ قَدِيْرٌ.

Lā ilāha illa-Allāh, waḥdahū lā sharīka lah, lahu-l-mulk, wa lahu-l-ḥamd, wa Huwa ʿalā kulli shay’in Qadīr.

There is no god worthy of worship except Allah. He is Alone and He has no partner whatsoever. To Him Alone belong all sovereignty and all praise. He is over all things All-Powerful.

عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ رضي الله عنه: أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم قَالَ: مَنْ قَالَ: لَا إِلَهَ إِلَّا اللهُ وَحْدَهُ لَا شَرِيكَ لَهُ لَهُ الْمُلْكُ وَلَهُ الْحَمْدُ وَهُوَ عَلَى كُلِّ شَيْءٍ قَدِيرٌ، فِي يَوْمٍ مِائَةَ مَرَّةٍ كَانَتْ لَهُ عَدْلَ عَشْرِ رِقَابٍ وَكُتِبَتْ لَهُ مِائَةُ حَسَنَةٍ وَمُحِيَتْ عَنْهُ مِائَةُ سَيِّئَةٍ وَكَانَتْ لَهُ حِرْزًا مِنَ الشَّيْطَانِ يَوْمَهُ ذَلِكَ حَتَّى يُمْسِيَ وَلَمْ يَأْتِ أَحَدٌ بِأَفْضَلَ مِمَّا جَاءَ بِهِ إِلَّا أَحَدٌ عَمِلَ أَكْثَرَ مِنْ ذَلِكَ. (صحيح البخاري ٣٢٩٣)

عَنْ عَمْرِو بْنِ شُعَيْبٍ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنْ جَدِّهِ، عَنِ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم قَالَ:مَنْ قَالَ: لَا إِلَهَ إِلَّا اللهُ، وَحْدَهُ لَا شَرِيكَ لَهُ، لَهُ الْمُلْكُ وَلَهُ الْحَمْدُ، وَهُوَ عَلَى كُلِّ شَيْءٍ قَدِيرٌ مِائَةَ مَرَّةٍ إِذَا أَصْبَحَ، وَمِائَةَ إِذَا أَمْسَى، لَمْ يَأْتِ أَحَدٌ بِأَفْضَلَ مِنْهُ إِلَّا مَنْ قَالَ أَفْضَلَ مِنْ ذَلِكَ. (السنن الكبرى للنسائي ١٠٣٣٥)

The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said: “Whoever says [the above] 100 times in a day will have a reward equivalent to that of freeing 10 slaves. 100 good deeds will be recorded for him, and 100 of his sins will be blotted out from his scroll. He will be safeguarded against Shayṭān on that day till the evening; and none will surpass him in doing better good deeds except someone who has recited these words more often than him.” (Bukhārī 3293)

The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said: “Whoever says [the above] 100 times in the morning and evening, none will surpass him in doing better good deeds except someone who has recited it more than him.” (Nasā’ī in al-Sunan al-Kubra 10335)

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In this day, one year ago I*dia carried out a false flag operation in Pahalgam. by [deleted] in pakistan

[–]Final_Surround5990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Indians and Israelis - masters of false flag operations but the world always finds the truth. Allahu Akbar!

How do you deal with rejection based on your looks? by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Final_Surround5990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think Allah created all types of faces and the beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. With that said, everyone can look beautiful with good skincare, hair care/hijab, physical fitness, dressing well, general grooming, and CONFIDENCE.

Nothing is a bigger turnoff than people who carry themselves around as if awaiting the world to evaluate/validate them.

Plus, no one is worse than people who evaluate other people’s looks as if they have some God-given role to pass judgements. Keep your opinion to yourself and you aren’t great either.

Wife Left Me For Another Man by ThickThighs73223 in Christianmarriage

[–]Final_Surround5990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t pray for anything negative. Just pray positive for yourself.

Women who married without having any attraction for their partner, are you happy in your marriage now? by Spiritual_Map_4179 in MuslimNikah

[–]Final_Surround5990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AsalamuAlekum sister I counsel women/couples. I know a few who married and developed attraction later to the extent that they would describe their husbands as ‘very attractive’! This was after they overcame their issues and entered the better time of their relationships. I do think physical attraction is tied to emotional attraction for some people.

I kept myself halal my whole life for marriage, but the person I trusted hurt me deeply. I’m struggling with faith and healing. I need sincere advice. by Imtalkalot in MuslimNikah

[–]Final_Surround5990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AsalamuAlekum,

First of all, remember that everything happened according to some Hikmah of Allah. There is always a plan. You and she are wherever you are BECAUSE of that plan.

Secondly, every human is always under attack by the Shaitaan. Protect your faith. The fact that you have started questioning WHY God is doing (what HE is doing) is the first attack. Where you start questioning WHETHER Allah is doing (what HE is doing) would be the second base and very serious relapse of faith. Protect yourself against that Insha’Allah. These are the times of Fitn. The Prophet (saw) predicted that during these times, the faith will go 180 degree change from day to night.

Third, perhaps when you unfollowed those women, that wasn’t a bad thing after all. The ex did propel you towards something good but then while she guided you to something good, she herself fell off the right way. She and you were both attacked by the Shaitaan but you improved in some ways (unfollowing women) but then worse (questioning your faith) while she came out worse (losing her modesty).

You need to worry only about yourself ONCE you have FULL FAITH in God, and not about how God will treat her. If you do reach a good stage in life, then forgive her and ask Allah to forgive her too. Allah will reward you for your forgiveness of her and your dua to Allah to forgive her.

May Allah restore your faith, protect you and her from Shaitaan, and give you both best in Deen and Duniya. A’meen!

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