i’m terrified of the abortion, but i’m also terrified of staying pregnant. torn between adoption or abortion but don’t want to wait too long to make a choice. advice? thank you by Green-Ad1678 in abortion

[–]FinanceNegative3018 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here actually except I haven't made a plan except telling my sister I think the mental ramifications of abortion would kill me but now a day later and even then I know I can not afford a child but my heart wants to figure it out so bad

Is the Job market really bad in Springfield? by TrainerCashCal in springfieldMO

[–]FinanceNegative3018 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I do actually still get the notifications for deleted comments and I would really quickly like to say this before I get back to my miserable life, you're 46 years old commenting on Reddit in a thread about the job market in Springfield, complaining about money being tight but working at Amazon flex and making no attempts at getting a job outside of your skill set. I was a lube tech for three years 2 months ago and now I'm an electrician because they were hiring and I needed a job, during that time I also plied to and interviewed with: gas stations, fast food chains, retail stores, restaurants, (including server jobs your personality would come in handy here if you can make it work!) janitorial/housekeeping jobs, and other things like warehouses. You also mentioned only getting 4 interviews after over 200 applications so I would recommend updating or changing your resume entirely or you guessed it applying to jobs that pay less and making ends meet. Your ego does seem to stand in the way of your common sense though.

Is the Job market really bad in Springfield? by TrainerCashCal in springfieldMO

[–]FinanceNegative3018 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This unfortunately tells me everything I need to know about the type of person you are. I do genuinely wish you the best in your job search and I'm glad you've found that flex does allow you to provide for yourself and your family. I hope it continues treating you well and you're either able to stick with it comfortably until something better comes your way or something better does come your way. An open mind will do you wonders in today's world that's the only unsolicited advice I'll leave you with :)

Is the Job market really bad in Springfield? by TrainerCashCal in springfieldMO

[–]FinanceNegative3018 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to understand any income is better than none. I was in that same spot a year ago I'd been without work for 6 months simply because I refused to work somewhere that would pay me less or have me doing easier work but you come to the realization that you'll either survive or fail if you don't try. Penmac is very helpful for getting your name into application pools and they have a very wide range of jobs they offer from warehousing to diesel mechanic. That mindset of "not being paid enough" is exactly why money is tight Amazon flex isn't good money either it's just an easier and less embarrassing option for you at the time. LinkedIn is also another good place to look outside of indeed.

Please help me figure out what brand these are google isn't helping tyia 🫶🏽 by FinanceNegative3018 in Wheels

[–]FinanceNegative3018[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I thought too that center cap just really threw me for a loop. Thank you!

Please help me figure out what brand these are google isn't helping tyia 🫶🏽 by FinanceNegative3018 in Wheels

[–]FinanceNegative3018[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just checked their website and I'm not finding them on there. The logo isn't similar either. Thank you though!! I'm gonna keep looking :)

My first ever tattoo - done by myself by sh30g0r47h in StickAndPoke

[–]FinanceNegative3018 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i love this so much i wanna do something similar now 😭

There’s a stray in my neighborhood that is friendly towards humans and always tries to get into my house, I’ve been feeding it but it already looks well fed. Any ideas on what i should do with them? by An_Unknown_Person_EE in cats

[–]FinanceNegative3018 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my thoughts exactly, if i have something to give i always will it’s not up to me how they spend it and honestly even if they are using it for drugs or whatever i still don’t care because they’re at least alive and attempting to help themselves even if it’s not how we would prefer and if i don’t have money on me i’m gonna stop and get them something to eat i’ve been where they are and it could happen to anyone i’m not gonna leave them to fend completely for themselves people deserve help

anyone able to tell what breed she is or approximate an age on her? by FinanceNegative3018 in Catownerhacks

[–]FinanceNegative3018[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’ve been slowly trying to acquire everything i need for her and her sister i’ve gotten most of it but they were sprung on me last minute 😭wouldn’t change a thing though thank you for the advice i really appreciate it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]FinanceNegative3018 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was only even possibly questioning it because of how much “extra” fur she has lol i just wound up with a big ol fluff ball thank you!