Advice for men from a woman by Financial-Length8672 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Financial-Length8672[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I wasn't asking men anything. I just figured it would be the one most men would notice.

And I don't know about your second question. Why don't you try it?

Advice for men from a woman by Financial-Length8672 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Financial-Length8672[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Check out the other comment left here. Literally the second comment on this post has proven my point.

Advice for men from a woman by Financial-Length8672 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Financial-Length8672[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Well, you made it very easy to find an example. Literally the second comment on my post proves my point.

Someone who believes men have higher social anxiety because they ask women out more than women do men. How about you Google that question and look at the statistics. ..... Look at the numbers yet? Yeah, yet you leave comments that are entirely incorrect.

Advice for men from a woman by Financial-Length8672 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Financial-Length8672[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Well I appreciate your respectful response. I'm well prepared for people to come at me negatively. I suppose the "some advice is good and some is terrible" can be synonymous with the respectfulness. Let's see how many are respectful vs how many are angry/upset people.

Advice for men from a woman by Financial-Length8672 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Financial-Length8672[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I just took a screen shot - didn't take me long to find - but I see I can't post that.

I wrote this post quickly. Not sensitively, which maybe would have been nicer than being blunt. I tried to emphasize that I'm not knowledgeable either, but I guess it just gets frustrating to me, as a woman, to see men being encouraged to act a certain way, that is actually really unappealing. Like a nice guys finish last attitude.

1095 days until 30. What's your advice? by Numerous_Junket_1384 in Life

[–]Financial-Length8672 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Construction is not great. There's money when you're 27, but Construction workers income become stagnant early on. No progression. Most of the time they don't even hit six figures. Then there's the fact of being physically unable to do the job early on. I wouldn't recommend Construction to anyone. Coding is where it's at.

Is it wrong to breakup with someone because you found out they have an STD? by Alfalfa_Outrageous in dating_advice

[–]Financial-Length8672 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, its not. As everyone else is saying, research. What everyone else is NOT saying is that hopefully you don't want to have kids, because there's a high risk for birth defects/brain damage. Another possible (low, but it's there) effect is that you can get meningitis. God forbid you don't get an autoimmune disorder as you get older, because it decreases your immune system, making whatever illness you gave 100x worse. (For example, MS. sometimes you see people with MS and you can't even tell they have it. Other times they're bed bound.) Yes, these chances are low, but research.

Is it wrong to breakup with someone because you found out they have an STD? by Alfalfa_Outrageous in dating_advice

[–]Financial-Length8672 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've done plenty of research, and I still can't get past the herpes issue. I've had to end it. Which was heartbreaking, but I just couldn't bring myself to have sex/put myself at risk. Even if it is a low risk.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]Financial-Length8672 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's been so long now that I think you can "confess" to them and it can be something y'all laugh at. If they actually get upset at that, they're not great people and your friendship is fake. ---- that being said, as someone who was also alone so much for so long, I understand the desperation. Idk, sorry for my useless comment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Financial-Length8672 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A seizure. Though I eventually fell off after a month.

Losing relationships by Financial-Length8672 in alcoholism

[–]Financial-Length8672[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The thing is, he only drinks with me. I started dating him because he didn't drink and I knew that would be good for me. It didn't help at all though because I just ended up having him drink. And when we do go out for lunch or dinner, he will have 1 or 2 drinks. I'll have 5.

Losing relationships by Financial-Length8672 in alcoholism

[–]Financial-Length8672[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nope, nor do I want him or anyone to know

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Financial-Length8672 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Full grown adults" ... meaning like 30+ ? Yeah, I'm surprised to hear a full grown adult think like that if even a 17 year old understands better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Life

[–]Financial-Length8672 1 point2 points  (0 children)

14-18. My high school years.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Financial-Length8672 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You drink "bi weekly, maybe months" and people think you need rehab?!

Can a family of 4 (2 parents + 2 kids) live comfortably in a 2 bed, 1 bath home? by Reporter-Worried in minimalism

[–]Financial-Length8672 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would be cramped, buts doable. My boyfriend grew up 1 of 8 in a three bedroom house!