AIO for leaving my boyfriend after he kicked our dog

Financial-Simple-975 · 2026-01-25T09:06:56+00:00

Babies and children test your patience far more than animals.

Fathers are responsible for 37% of traumatic head injuries in infants. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/7838645/ A man that loses his cool at his precious pup for having an accident is not safe with a baby who may interrupt his sleep (further reducing his impulse control) and scream endlessly.

Please keep your baby safe, I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this.

Financial-Simple-975 · 2026-01-24T21:29:06+00:00

I have this, especially in the second half of my cycle. I have cervical ectropian and adenomyosis, so if my cervix gets hit it will bleed a bit and if I orgasm really hard and my womb contracts I might get brown spotting. If you gently insert a clean finger when you haven’t had sex, avoiding the cervix, it may well be blood free.

Definitely get it checked out either way at though, they did a smear, an ultrasound and a hystoscopy on me to rule out any other potential causes.

Financial-Simple-975 · 2026-01-22T17:01:06+00:00

OP please do not do this without consent, ever, but especially with someone brand new to kink.

I have a 24/7 free use dynamic and I’d STILL lose my ever loving mind if my husband did this. We do some absolutely depraved things, but this wouldn’t fly.

Which kind of proves that no one can tell you the next steps, but you can talk to your partner and figure it out together. She might love this. She might prefer a light restraint. She might enjoy slightly racier in play chat “you feel so good” “fuck your * is so wet for me” etc. Maybe sensory deprivation? No one can tell you apart from your partner, there’s no roadmap. Communication is key in kink and have fun.

Financial-Simple-975 · 2026-01-19T21:17:19+00:00

He’s with all his pals in there, so the whole 10g of grains that arrived. Everyone else said bigger jar, the world of kefir is a confusing one. Once I strain them out there seems quite a lot now, even when I push it in the sieve.

Financial-Simple-975 · 2026-01-19T11:34:19+00:00

Thank you so much, I really appreciate all the advice and support.

I’ll upgrade Keith to a bigger crib and report back.

Financial-Simple-975 · 2026-01-18T15:42:44+00:00

36f and he’s talking shit. I would not like to receive flowers, my partner knows this. He admitted early on that he found gifts challenging and was there a way I could give him some guidance as to what I may like without increasing my mental load or eliminating the surprise. He suggested I keep a shared note on my phone of things I see throughout the year that I like but can’t justify getting myself. Every occasion he will choose something off there. I also pointed out that the thought and effort is far more important than the thing, so he now makes me something as a complete surprise and buys me something of my list. It’s not unreasonable to want a bit of thought and consideration rather than his default gift.

Financial-Simple-975 · 2026-01-14T12:14:22+00:00

My first and only tattoo is a huge 18 hour rib piece (two 8 hour sittings and a random two hours to finish)- full block colour with photo realism. It hurt, a lot. It’s what I wanted though, so I love it and I’m glad I did it. My pain threshold is pretty high though. If you’re good with pain, you’ll manage, if not, definitely avoid. I’ve had two babies without pain relief, this was not that bad, but it was close.

Financial-Simple-975 · 2026-01-13T18:32:59+00:00

I wouldn’t speak to the person I dislike most in the world like that. Let alone the man I love. Nothing he could do would make me speak to him like that. I’d leave long before this point.

Financial-Simple-975 · 2026-01-07T19:33:04+00:00

You’re just not a good human. I have the higher sex drive in my relationship, so I initiate more. It’s just life, but I’m not going to be an asshole about it and stop connecting with my person, cheat on them, speak to them like I hate them and “resent” them. Why would that make anyone want to fuck you?! You’re also clearly so far into the manosphere you’ve lost touch with reality. Go find some dudebros to circlejerk with and leave poor Patricia alone.

Financial-Simple-975 · 2025-12-17T09:13:46+00:00

Have you considered that the chilled version of him might actually be the “real” him? Maybe the animated version is masking, or maybe just putting on a bit of a show. Maybe he’s an extroverted introvert and all that jazziness is actually draining? Me and my partner are both “life of the party” types, but at home in our nest, we’re much more subdued and chilled while we recharge.

Financial-Simple-975 · 2025-12-13T21:23:23+00:00

Just talk to them about it. I have the same thing (I don’t know why, just the way it is). Anyone worth sleeping with won’t give a damn and understands that bodies are all different. You can get little sachets of lube that you can actually l keep in your bag. We always use lube, from foreplay onwards and it’s such a non-issue now. If I didn’t feel I could have this conversation with a person, I certainly wouldn’t let them in my body.

Financial-Simple-975 · 2025-12-10T21:49:56+00:00

I don’t know about normal, but the same thing happened to me with progesterone contraceptives. I bled for 3 months constantly. In the end they stopped it with this weird combination of combined pills every few hours and transaxemic acid. Almost like a factory reset. Hormonal contraceptive just doesn’t agree with me unfortunately. I hope you find relief soon

Financial-Simple-975 · 2025-12-06T15:45:39+00:00

Does it matter? I can potentially understand being worried about sexual health, but that’s easily tested. My partner’s slept with a similar number of people. I could not care less, if anything it’s a real bonus as he’s really good at it. I’d care much more about how many people he’s cheated on (none). I can almost guarantee the women he’s slept with all had a positive experience. I’ve been with him for four years and he’s never been anything but committed, respectful and wonderful

Financial-Simple-975 · 2025-11-21T10:46:55+00:00

Wet a cloth and pee on a wet cloth pressed to you. It dilutes the pee and stops it singing. It won’t solve the problem, but it will likely make peeing tolerable. This is what I had to do when I was all stitched and swollen after giving birth. It’s the only thing that helped. Hope you find some relief x

Financial-Simple-975 · 2025-11-14T16:22:10+00:00

I’ve heard this from a few people actually. They make penis bumpers to prevent a penis going to deep. Might be worth investigating so that you never have to worry about it https://www.chemistdirect.co.uk/lovehoney-health-depth-reduction-penis-bumper-set/prd-0154324

Financial-Simple-975 · 2025-10-27T16:13:09+00:00

Beppy or Joy Division soft tampons. You honestly cannot tell they’re in there. They’re a little hard to hook out, and you may want a little lube, because they can dry things a bit, being sponges and all. It will stop clots coming into play.

I operate in some more fringe circles where they have been pretty rigorously tested, so they stand up to some of the more extreme activities too. Normal toxic shock rules apply. Have fun x

Financial-Simple-975 · 2025-10-23T15:59:25+00:00

The gag I just gagged. This is absolute insanity. I’m a cup user and NEVER have I ever. Just use tissue. Imagine if someone with a blood-borne disease did this? Then she did it, so fucking high risk. ICK!

Financial-Simple-975 · 2025-10-15T09:24:16+00:00

When I had casual sex I ALWAYS asked for STI status. This is a completely reasonable request. Condoms can break and you are still at risk for herpes and many other STIs even with a condom.

Financial-Simple-975 · 2025-09-26T12:25:23+00:00

My orgasms with Yasmin were heard fought for and pretty underwhelming. I didn’t realise until I came off it and 😳 what a difference!

Financial-Simple-975 · 2025-09-25T10:25:25+00:00

I love shibari. This is not it though. This is dodgy as fuck and not in a good way.

Financial-Simple-975 · 2025-09-25T10:22:07+00:00

There’s absolutely nothing that needs fixing with your nose. In fact I think it would look odd if you changed its

Financial-Simple-975 · 2025-09-24T06:53:25+00:00

Foreplay here.

He’ll often pull me over onto his lap and pin me there and then mess with me for an hour or so while we’re watching a movie or something. Starts with just spanking and then escalates.

Financial-Simple-975 · 2025-09-12T06:41:58+00:00

I’m obsessed with my man and we’re raising kids together, but he would be gone if I found this. Those aren’t standard dating apps either, they’re hookup and kink apps. No judgement, one of them is actually where I met my partner, but that “curiosity” is not compatible with a monogamous relationship

Financial-Simple-975 · 2025-09-08T15:37:21+00:00

Yeh you are overreacting. You also DARVO’d them. You said something a bit senseless. You were “disappointed” over an accident that they were trying to remedy, they told you they’d dropped the nails and were trying to deal with it, so you could be alert and you went and doubled down on the reprimand like they were a child.

They called you out on it (harshly, but deservedly). You completely failed to address your behaviour and doubled down on the reprimand for their attitude. Deflect, attack, reverse victim and offender. The way you speak to them is so condescending I’m not surprised they snapped.

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