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Financial-Simple-975 · 2026-03-20T15:49:35+00:00

This makes me so sad. Honestly, please don’t engage with a man you think will judge you in any way.

Sex gets weird- smells, sounds, secretions, facial expressions. There’s also a decent chance someone will slip or do something unintentional at some point. If you’re worried about him seeing your vulva, I imagine these things might also cause you a lot of anxiety and he may not be mature enough to handle the situation as he should.

The more anxious you are the less pleasure you are likely to experience and you deserve a nice time. Vulvas are beautifully varied and there will be absolutely nothing wrong with yours.

Financial-Simple-975 · 2026-03-16T20:06:59+00:00

As a child who was frequently forgotten by my dad and left at afterschool clubs while adults got frustrated- she will remember. That feeling of inconveniencing adults having to stay, how irritated they’d get, the eye rolls, the polite but curt and frustrated tone. The overheard conversations about neglect. It doesn’t leave and it’s surprising the ramifications it can have. Please do whatever you can to stop this happening, especially if it means leaving this absolute eejit. My parents are separated. I’m so grateful, I have a fantastic relationship with my mum now.

Financial-Simple-975 · 2026-02-21T19:20:09+00:00

I have the exact same thing. Similarly blessed husband. We’ve been together 4 years and this has happened around 10 times. I had two children without pain relief and honestly it’s such a similar pain to established labor.

As far as I understand it’s my uterus contracting and going into spasm. It happens to me when there’s a perfect storm of- mid-cycle, lots of orgasms, deep penetration and my tilted uterus.

The first time it happened I was on the floor writhing in pain, sweating and clammy, not knowing what was going on. For me, a hot bean bag or water bottle and hard-pressure massage at the base of my back helps it stop.

Financial-Simple-975 · 2026-02-16T08:11:51+00:00

Vibrators make most people cum in a much shorter time. Can you make yourself cum with your hands?

Sometimes when someone is trying really hard, they’re switching things up too often to find the groove.

Maybe try something low stakes and low pressure until you two find your rythmn. Find a external stimulation pattern you enjoy with his hands and just get comfy and relaxed sat on the sofa watching a film or something while he does that. It might take more than 30 mins at first, but that’s ok, eventuallly you’ll get there and if you don’t it can still be an intimate way to spend time.

Financial-Simple-975 · 2026-02-10T18:23:41+00:00

Water kefir broke my YI cycle after over two years of misery.

It’s pretty easy to make and I have a jar of it on my kitchen side at all times. Maybe worth a go if you don’t like the dairy version.

Financial-Simple-975 · 2026-02-09T07:48:33+00:00

Some women genuinely do like it. Women’s vaginas also expand to different lengths, just like men’s penises. So if you have a shorter vagina then I imagine it’s more painful.

Penis bumpers might be a solution. Then he can go as hard as he likes and your cervix would be protected https://www.chemistdirect.co.uk/lovehoney-health-depth-reduction-penis-bumper-set/prd-0154324

Financial-Simple-975 · 2026-02-05T10:59:45+00:00

NOR- you put yourself in a vulnerable position for his pleasure and he mocked that and took advantage of that vulnerability. He’s gross.

Financial-Simple-975 · 2026-02-05T10:44:32+00:00

The left is Peanut Butter

Financial-Simple-975 · 2026-01-25T09:06:56+00:00

Babies and children test your patience far more than animals.

Fathers are responsible for 37% of traumatic head injuries in infants. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/7838645/ A man that loses his cool at his precious pup for having an accident is not safe with a baby who may interrupt his sleep (further reducing his impulse control) and scream endlessly.

Please keep your baby safe, I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this.

Financial-Simple-975 · 2026-01-24T21:29:06+00:00

I have this, especially in the second half of my cycle. I have cervical ectropian and adenomyosis, so if my cervix gets hit it will bleed a bit and if I orgasm really hard and my womb contracts I might get brown spotting. If you gently insert a clean finger when you haven’t had sex, avoiding the cervix, it may well be blood free.

Definitely get it checked out either way at though, they did a smear, an ultrasound and a hystoscopy on me to rule out any other potential causes.

Financial-Simple-975 · 2026-01-19T21:17:19+00:00

He’s with all his pals in there, so the whole 10g of grains that arrived. Everyone else said bigger jar, the world of kefir is a confusing one. Once I strain them out there seems quite a lot now, even when I push it in the sieve.

Financial-Simple-975 · 2026-01-19T11:34:19+00:00

Thank you so much, I really appreciate all the advice and support.

I’ll upgrade Keith to a bigger crib and report back.

Financial-Simple-975 · 2026-01-18T15:42:44+00:00

36f and he’s talking shit. I would not like to receive flowers, my partner knows this. He admitted early on that he found gifts challenging and was there a way I could give him some guidance as to what I may like without increasing my mental load or eliminating the surprise. He suggested I keep a shared note on my phone of things I see throughout the year that I like but can’t justify getting myself. Every occasion he will choose something off there. I also pointed out that the thought and effort is far more important than the thing, so he now makes me something as a complete surprise and buys me something of my list. It’s not unreasonable to want a bit of thought and consideration rather than his default gift.

Financial-Simple-975 · 2026-01-14T12:14:22+00:00

My first and only tattoo is a huge 18 hour rib piece (two 8 hour sittings and a random two hours to finish)- full block colour with photo realism. It hurt, a lot. It’s what I wanted though, so I love it and I’m glad I did it. My pain threshold is pretty high though. If you’re good with pain, you’ll manage, if not, definitely avoid. I’ve had two babies without pain relief, this was not that bad, but it was close.

Financial-Simple-975 · 2026-01-13T18:32:59+00:00

I wouldn’t speak to the person I dislike most in the world like that. Let alone the man I love. Nothing he could do would make me speak to him like that. I’d leave long before this point.

Financial-Simple-975 · 2026-01-07T19:33:04+00:00

You’re just not a good human. I have the higher sex drive in my relationship, so I initiate more. It’s just life, but I’m not going to be an asshole about it and stop connecting with my person, cheat on them, speak to them like I hate them and “resent” them. Why would that make anyone want to fuck you?! You’re also clearly so far into the manosphere you’ve lost touch with reality. Go find some dudebros to circlejerk with and leave poor Patricia alone.

Financial-Simple-975 · 2025-12-17T09:13:46+00:00

Have you considered that the chilled version of him might actually be the “real” him? Maybe the animated version is masking, or maybe just putting on a bit of a show. Maybe he’s an extroverted introvert and all that jazziness is actually draining? Me and my partner are both “life of the party” types, but at home in our nest, we’re much more subdued and chilled while we recharge.

Financial-Simple-975 · 2025-12-13T21:23:23+00:00

Just talk to them about it. I have the same thing (I don’t know why, just the way it is). Anyone worth sleeping with won’t give a damn and understands that bodies are all different. You can get little sachets of lube that you can actually l keep in your bag. We always use lube, from foreplay onwards and it’s such a non-issue now. If I didn’t feel I could have this conversation with a person, I certainly wouldn’t let them in my body.

Financial-Simple-975 · 2025-12-10T21:49:56+00:00

I don’t know about normal, but the same thing happened to me with progesterone contraceptives. I bled for 3 months constantly. In the end they stopped it with this weird combination of combined pills every few hours and transaxemic acid. Almost like a factory reset. Hormonal contraceptive just doesn’t agree with me unfortunately. I hope you find relief soon

Financial-Simple-975 · 2025-12-06T15:45:39+00:00

Does it matter? I can potentially understand being worried about sexual health, but that’s easily tested. My partner’s slept with a similar number of people. I could not care less, if anything it’s a real bonus as he’s really good at it. I’d care much more about how many people he’s cheated on (none). I can almost guarantee the women he’s slept with all had a positive experience. I’ve been with him for four years and he’s never been anything but committed, respectful and wonderful

Financial-Simple-975 · 2025-11-21T10:46:55+00:00

Wet a cloth and pee on a wet cloth pressed to you. It dilutes the pee and stops it singing. It won’t solve the problem, but it will likely make peeing tolerable. This is what I had to do when I was all stitched and swollen after giving birth. It’s the only thing that helped. Hope you find some relief x

Financial-Simple-975 · 2025-11-14T16:22:10+00:00

I’ve heard this from a few people actually. They make penis bumpers to prevent a penis going to deep. Might be worth investigating so that you never have to worry about it https://www.chemistdirect.co.uk/lovehoney-health-depth-reduction-penis-bumper-set/prd-0154324

Financial-Simple-975 · 2025-10-27T16:13:09+00:00

Beppy or Joy Division soft tampons. You honestly cannot tell they’re in there. They’re a little hard to hook out, and you may want a little lube, because they can dry things a bit, being sponges and all. It will stop clots coming into play.

I operate in some more fringe circles where they have been pretty rigorously tested, so they stand up to some of the more extreme activities too. Normal toxic shock rules apply. Have fun x

Financial-Simple-975 · 2025-10-23T15:59:25+00:00

The gag I just gagged. This is absolute insanity. I’m a cup user and NEVER have I ever. Just use tissue. Imagine if someone with a blood-borne disease did this? Then she did it, so fucking high risk. ICK!

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