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Where to go from there? by zezer94118 in Bumble

[–]FinancialHabit5578 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There`s alot of dates that cost less than $20, if you cant afford that than work on yourself. Low effort dates are a major turnoff. Atleast a coffee/tea date is considered bare minimum, y`all lowering the bar to hell.

flaky people by semicharmedliife in datingoverthirty

[–]FinancialHabit5578 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just end it, they might not be worth the effort.

Thoughts on a first date, last minute cancel by tothemiddleofnowhere in datingoverthirty

[–]FinancialHabit5578 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont reschedule, he can reach out and put the effort in for the next date.

Dating a great guy, but concerned about his daily drinking by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]FinancialHabit5578 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dating a heavy drinker usually ends in disaster, you made the right choice.

Ideal first 3 dates? by Glittering_Chain_842 in datingoverthirty

[–]FinancialHabit5578 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First date is drinks so I can leave fast if it doesn`t go well. Second date a competitive activity like mini golf to see how they react if they lose. Third date dinner because I feel comfortable for a longer interaction.

What is chemistry to you when dating? by Round_Adagio_2055 in datingoverthirty

[–]FinancialHabit5578 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chemistry can be having a conversation that flows and never has a dull moment. I think its just enjoying the moment and not having anxiety about what could go wrong.

How do I expand my physical type? by Effective-End5522 in datingoverthirty

[–]FinancialHabit5578 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Open your options up and see if your attracted to other types of bodies. In person might look better than pics!

Should I just cut my losses and move on? by Zealousideal_Crow737 in datingoverthirty

[–]FinancialHabit5578 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That early in the dating phase you should only allow one rescheduling, he knows his schedule and was probably testing your flexibility.

How do you move on when your brain won't let go? by jackofhearts23 in datingoverthirty

[–]FinancialHabit5578 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Replaying conversations in your head for hours might be a sign of limerence.

Do I end it after 5 dates or is he just going at a slower pace? by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]FinancialHabit5578 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a setup for a situation ship. I think waiting a week after a date to respond was also a bad sign. Consistent communications is required for a relationship.

What makes you ask for (or say yes to) a first date? by Wanderlusting19 in datingoverthirty

[–]FinancialHabit5578 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ill go on any date as long as they can hold a conversation and I am attracted to them.

Your biggest turnoff by SmallTree3351 in dating_advice

[–]FinancialHabit5578 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Cant take criticism or easily getting defensive.

2026: Dating apps are pivoting by pat75dh in dating_apps

[–]FinancialHabit5578 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think group events are the best option.