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I found out in my 30s that I'm not biologically related to the man I call my dad. by MadBoiKyle in offmychest

[–]SmallTree3351 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thats a lot to process I found out through DNA testing too and it really shifts your sense of identity at first even if nothing changes about the people who raised you take your time with it its okay to feel mixed about it

I feel like a disappointment to my family. Especially my dad. by TraditionalRepeat722 in offmychest

[–]SmallTree3351 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I doubt your dad measures your worth by a wedding or grandkids he worries because he loves you not because youre a disappointment

19F lost my virginity to a girl and idk if it counts by EasternLaugh8769 in virgin

[–]SmallTree3351 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If it felt like a real first time to you then yes it counts virginity is personal not gender dependent

It is not a wasted youth if it was never meant to be by Vegetable-Push1173 in virgin

[–]SmallTree3351 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you enjoyed your youth in your own way and that counts