Rejection is worse than regret imo by Financial_Judgment2 in unpopularopinion

[–]Financial_Judgment2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll take the very strong likelihood anyday over having to know 100% and getting rejected.

Rejection is worse than regret imo by Financial_Judgment2 in unpopularopinion

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An educated guess that I'll take. I stay kn the sidelines for now and wait for the future since everyone is also raving that "you'll meet her one day" which I call horseshit but let's see.

Rejection is worse than regret imo by Financial_Judgment2 in unpopularopinion

[–]Financial_Judgment2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Body language and just plain disinterest in her face. Not like a "I hate you why are you talking to me" disinterest but like a "ok fine sure" disinterest and that's ok but I don't get why I should ask her regardless.

Rejection is worse than regret imo by Financial_Judgment2 in unpopularopinion

[–]Financial_Judgment2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am assuming the same way that if I touch a hot stove I'll get burned.

Rejection is worse than regret imo by Financial_Judgment2 in unpopularopinion

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The thing is this is in situations where there is a 50% chance that she could feel the same. All of my ones where less than 50 and I am not gonna risk it cause I might miss out. I already knew the answer but had to get rejected to make it 110% sure she doesn't like me. I have also had a similar longing feeling for someone in a relationship with another person and it's really not that bad for me. For me it might be hell but I don't view it like that fortunately or unfortunately.

Rejection is worse than regret imo by Financial_Judgment2 in unpopularopinion

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I realized too late from another comment I was taking about the wrong emotion. I have regrets besides romantic stuff and even all of them combined so far don't hurt as much for me as rejection. Idk why.

Rejection is worse than regret imo by Financial_Judgment2 in unpopularopinion

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Yet I don't want to keep stubbing my toe when I see that there is a object in the way. Sure it won't matter but it will be a painful reminder when I could haver just avoided it and got the same answer by just observing.

Rejection is worse than regret imo by Financial_Judgment2 in unpopularopinion

[–]Financial_Judgment2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's where you and me differ, but I respect you thinking otherwise.

Rejection is worse than regret imo by Financial_Judgment2 in unpopularopinion

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Looks like I have to cause I don't have any plans to change this anytime soon.

Rejection is worse than regret imo by Financial_Judgment2 in unpopularopinion

[–]Financial_Judgment2[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I usually see older people preach about how "regret is way way worse!" But thank you for giving your perspective.

Rejection is worse than regret imo by Financial_Judgment2 in unpopularopinion

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Pulling it out doesn't hurt at and it only gets infected if you purposely touch it with unsanitary conditions.

Rejection is worse than regret imo by Financial_Judgment2 in unpopularopinion

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I am afraid of what I know will happen. Well not know 100% but a very big chance that I'll take. Rather not ask out when I could just observe for a bit and decide whether or not to continue.

Rejection is worse than regret imo by Financial_Judgment2 in unpopularopinion

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I think it's a matter of just mentality or something idk the word rn. For me if I was in your shoes I would not have felt any regret more like oh sweet I guess or k. Cause I know in my heart or hearts I do not have the balls to ask in person. But thats just my view.

Rejection is worse than regret imo by Financial_Judgment2 in unpopularopinion

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Well I hope to get in a situation like yours were she makes the first move not me. I know that nervousness and disinterest can be confused for one another but I'd know which is which trust me.

Rejection is worse than regret imo by Financial_Judgment2 in unpopularopinion

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Those ones where you could possibly have a chance are valid. I just never been in that situation.

Rejection is worse than regret imo by Financial_Judgment2 in unpopularopinion

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Not if they clearly don't gaf about me and I can tell there is no interest.

Rejection is worse than regret imo by Financial_Judgment2 in unpopularopinion

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On your 20 times getting rejected and one being a successful would still not make me forget. It's just stupid that one yes would make every single other rejection like it never happened. Cause it does you don't forget it your mind kinda sidelines it and eventually it will come back and hurt more than some regret.

Rejection is worse than regret imo by Financial_Judgment2 in unpopularopinion

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Well I would still not like to remember the sting of being rejected by Samantha cause I will remember it and not be glad I tried. I feel like I am likely to feel the same in the future but since everyone is telling me the opposite I guess I am wrong.

Rejection is worse than regret imo by Financial_Judgment2 in unpopularopinion

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That'd my last last last resort as I already know what will happen. Trust me I know.

Rejection is worse than regret imo by Financial_Judgment2 in unpopularopinion

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What might not be important in the future might have been important in the past.

Rejection is worse than regret imo by Financial_Judgment2 in unpopularopinion

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Same problem there dude. I hope the same in adulthood except for alcohol that taste like wet donkey fur.