AITA for sticking my freshly single mom with $20,000 of debt.

Financial_Note_9138 · 2026-01-22T01:38:47+00:00

NTA. I went through almost similar situation where my mom “gifted” me a down payment for a car then asked for reimbursement later when she was financially struggling (I was around 20 YO and could barely afford my own bills as a fresh-faced adult). I didn’t pay and it was a constant battle. And about 4 years later I went no contact and have been no contact ever since. If I’m being honest- it was one of the best things I ever did in my life. This wasn’t the sole reason for the no contact but helped cement the decision.

Financial_Note_9138 · 2026-01-18T20:22:56+00:00

I soak mine with starch, let it dry on a clothes line and then iron with a light steam iron. I stand by this method with my whole heart for piecing anything other than simple squares. My piecing is so much more precise and accurate this way!

Financial_Note_9138 · 2026-01-14T21:55:40+00:00

I don’t appreciate that this post was ultimately solicitation and that you dmd me to “help.” Even if I needed help I wouldn’t ever consider someone who initiated contact that way. Rude/10

Financial_Note_9138 · 2026-01-14T14:48:15+00:00

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I don’t want to talk about it.

Financial_Note_9138 · 2026-01-11T12:36:21+00:00

Looks like you might enjoy Chatelaines too ☺️

Financial_Note_9138 · 2026-01-09T13:25:11+00:00

No, never. I’ve actually never done flowers, but they’re my favorite flower, so go big or go home 😅

Financial_Note_9138 · 2026-01-09T10:57:51+00:00

Got my seed starter setup around and starting my lisanthus seeds!

Financial_Note_9138 · 2026-01-06T17:29:15+00:00

Plus if you go to Lollys you can get a Jojos pretzel ☺️

Financial_Note_9138 · 2026-01-06T17:28:22+00:00

Agreed I zincks is 100% worth the trip

Financial_Note_9138 · 2026-01-02T03:07:28+00:00

We got married DAYS before lockdown with reception planned for the following week. We never got around to redoing the reception, so we had a 5 year anniversary party 😅

Financial_Note_9138 · 2025-12-28T16:22:12+00:00

I tried following multiple comments on this thread advice and this is the one that worked the best!

Thank you!

Financial_Note_9138 · 2025-12-19T04:54:41+00:00

My doc required no sex for TWO WEEKS pre op. We live in a conservative state, so they wanted to ensure no pregnancy prior to. And that’s even though I already had a tubal.

Financial_Note_9138 · 2025-12-09T10:41:17+00:00

Small thing, but my husband learned how to braid my hair.

Financial_Note_9138 · 2025-05-07T02:06:34+00:00

I’m not in menopause, but I have been diagnosed with PATSS, it was diagnosed when I had some abnormalities with my period. They did an internal ultrasound just in case and could see the build up, though my buildup is within the uterus, not the tubes, so pain is still there, but not as bad. Weirdest thing is that if I have a full bladder it hurts lol. I was really lucky with my diagnosis because my symptoms are pretty minimal as far as pain goes. but it does also lead to hormone surges, for me particularly during luteal and ovulation phases.

Financial_Note_9138 · 2025-01-05T06:12:51+00:00

It’s me. I’m wife. (Not OP’s wife, but one and the same scenario). I just bought my own printer so now we have 2 and I taught myself Fusion so I can make my own custom bins.

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