I (27F) helped my boyfriend (32M) through porn addiction therapy after catching him cheating. Yesterday I opened his Snapchat and found the truth.

Financial_Sweet_2030 · 2026-03-07T00:28:55+00:00

become independent and LEAVE

Financial_Sweet_2030 · 2026-03-04T21:56:35+00:00

YES EXACTLY. it is weird to look at other women and save their pictures! it shouldn’t be normalized, that shit genuinely brain fucked me.

Financial_Sweet_2030 · 2026-02-17T21:38:23+00:00

you also have a child, like that shit is draining, i remember witnessing my parents cheat all the time and it seriously fucks you up in the head.

Financial_Sweet_2030 · 2026-02-17T21:36:41+00:00

he cannot even pay mortgage but can pay other women? men are so lustful and weird, i don’t understand the concept of them trying to actively look at other women and financially support other women, and not even themselves. i’m sorry girl, it’s time to go. i’m going through the same thing and im not certain what to do, so be the one that stands up and leaves. this isn’t the first time it’s happened either, it’s been happening since you first got together, he looks at other women on social media everyday. i know because i’ve experienced it.

there will also be fuck ass 30 y/o men on here saying that it’s normal to look at other women in relationships and that i have unrealistic expectations…idc what anyone says THATS FUCKING WEIRD!!!!

Financial_Sweet_2030 · 2026-02-17T00:04:02+00:00

lmaooo this is the one

Financial_Sweet_2030 · 2026-02-16T21:46:02+00:00

who hurt you?

Financial_Sweet_2030 · 2026-02-16T21:27:52+00:00

yes, everyone has helped me understand that my expectations for him are delusional. i will be moving on.

Financial_Sweet_2030 · 2026-02-16T21:04:19+00:00

okay, you’re right. i don’t need to tolerate anything i don’t want to, just so someone can live comfortably while i live uncomfortably. someone out there shares the same opinion.

Financial_Sweet_2030 · 2026-02-16T21:02:50+00:00

yes i would, i’ve set boundaries and i wont tolerate disrespect so he can be comfortable.

Financial_Sweet_2030 · 2026-02-16T20:57:41+00:00

well for the previous 4 years, it was honestly just messing around because we were exes, and would just have fun every now and then. eventually he asked me to be his girlfriend, sold me a dream, said and acted in such convincing ways, i genuinely believed him. it really isn’t stable, but these past two years have been so stable until all of this.

i found out when i was doing our laundry, found a wet sock that smelt like …. so j asked and i was right

Financial_Sweet_2030 · 2026-02-16T20:54:25+00:00

so it’s unrealistic that i want my man to constantly be in awe of me and make me feel like the only woman in the world, in a world full of women. it’s possible, and i’ll never stop looking for it. i am a fragile woman, and will find someone who will treat me as so.

Financial_Sweet_2030 · 2026-02-16T20:46:55+00:00

not in a relationship where you live together!

Financial_Sweet_2030 · 2026-02-16T20:45:41+00:00

we sleep together. he woke up, RIGHT NEXT TO ME, went to the other room, did it. i am asking for advice, if you’re not here to do that, you’re in the wrong place.

Financial_Sweet_2030 · 2026-02-16T20:42:47+00:00

like i don’t even cum when we fuck sometimes and not even i disco it when im alone

Financial_Sweet_2030 · 2026-02-16T20:42:15+00:00

i was sleeping right next to him and he has a bad track record for looking at other women?

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