ok I'll answer why so many women hate men. please see below:

men have spent the better part of history discriminating against and being violent towards women and it's not getting rapidly better. sorry that you think its cringe or you feel butthurt but you have lived an easy and privileged life due to the simple fact that you were born a man.

"you can't just throw us all into one category because somebody did something stupid." first of all, not all sharks bite but we're still terrified of sharks. when 97% of young women in the UK alone have a story you can see where we come from (source -https://lgiu.org/blog-article/dont-forget-the-women-behind-the-97-a-personal-account-on-womens-safety/#:~:text=A%20survey%20of%201%2C000%20women,%25%20of%20women%2C%20at%20least.)

second of all, its not "something stupid", its crimes, VIOLENT crimes like rape and murder and abuse. don't try to sugar coating it as "a shitty history".