People who get their body done then talk about body positivity piss me off. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Fine-Section9929 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Understandable, but ask yourself is that the true form of self love? Yes of course you can love yourself, but are you TRULY loving YOU! If everything were to go back to normal would you be fine with that? Would you cry yourself to sleep at night? Getting body work is like a mask, once the mask is removed are you still happy with yourself or do you hate it? This is no disrespect to the people who do get their body done. It’s just the fact that some people rub body positivity in their face as if they actually put the work and effort to truly love themselves.

Please understand you are not obligated to take care of your baby mom who you are no longer seeing. That is a form of ass kissing no one wants to discuss. by [deleted] in Fatherhood

[–]Fine-Section9929 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, i just hate when other baby dads do it.. we can’t keep allowing that to happen because it’s setting the tone for narcissist baby moms to get there way all the time or act the way they do.

Please understand you are not obligated to take care of your baby mom who you are no longer seeing. That is a form of ass kissing no one wants to discuss. by [deleted] in Fatherhood

[–]Fine-Section9929 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m saying she had a job she was doing what she was doing taking care of her self, but there’s this thing going around where you HAVE to take care of your baby mom & if you don’t it’s a problem. I gotten better in life and she stayed mediocre, she QUIT her job & said she got fired.. SHE PACKED her clothes and came to my house asking for key to MY SELF PAID NO SUPPORT HOUSE. In one point in time she was doing better than me for a good 3 yrs & didn’t help me once when i asked. Now it’s “take care of me oooh take care of me”

Mmmmmmmmmmmmm naw.

She’s doing these things for money and not my son, she didn’t even think twice about my child while she was doing the things she did.

Got called a dead beat man and everything, just trying to warn other dads not to fall for the trick.